Fear of marriage is not uncommon in modern times, especially today when the divorce rate is getting higher and higher. Who is willing to delve into the idea of ????love. A marriage that only relies on money will not live well, and a marriage that only lives by love will not live well either.

In general, there is no free lunch in the world, or in other words, in many cases, a paid lunch is much more comfortable than a free lunch, so why not insist on self-reliance?

In ancient my country, women have been instilled with the idea that no matter how good a woman is at work, it is not as good as marrying well. But as time goes by, we will find that many behaviors inherited from ancient times, such as domestic violence, cheating, etc., are no longer the basis for women to tolerate. For women, in today's marriage, they need not only money, but also Love also requires mutual respect and common topics.

Why do many netizens say they don’t dare to get married now after reading the Marriage Law? There are mainly five reasons: 1. The interests are clearly divided

In general, marriage seems to exist with a contractual relationship from ancient times to the present. Women need to rely on men to provide a stable family life, so in order to enjoy a stable and good quality of life, women can sacrifice their possession and persistence of love, and they are also willing for men to have three wives and four concubines. Because in their eyes, love is really not important. Living well is the most important thing. Love is really worthless in the face of interests.

But in the latest marriage law, women clearly realize that they can’t rely on anything but themselves. The new marriage law states that whoever bought the house before marriage still owns it after marriage. This is equivalent to the fact that if a woman marries a man who owns a house, and then gets married and has children, she can live in the same house with the man and enjoy a superior life, but if the man one day dislikes you I divorce you and ask you to leave. This is really a matter of leaving anytime and anywhere. 2. Women need to sacrifice their careers to have children

This society says that men and women are equal and everyone is equal, but in reality people are really unequal. Otherwise, why would powerful and wealthy people be able to stay in luxury hotels? You can enjoy various VIP treatments, which shows that this is really unfair. The same goes for men and women. Although women's status has been unprecedentedly improved compared to the previous feudal society, in terms of marriage and childbirth, women still need to complete childbirth. This will require women to sacrifice their bodies to get pregnant and even sacrifice their careers. When it comes to taking care of children, women themselves are overflowing with motherly love.

During the childbirth process, it will have an impact on women’s figure and physiology. This woman also knows that they need to get a lot of benefits from men in order to feel safe. But often during the sensitive period of pregnancy, women's characteristics cannot meet the needs of men. It is also the time when men are most likely to cheat, and it is also the time when men are most likely to have all kinds of anger towards women. It's a huge challenge. That's why there is such a saying, "If you don't get married and have children, you really don't know whether you will marry a human or a dog." 3. In ordinary years, you cannot be loyal to just one person

In the new marriage law, it is clearly stipulated Husband and wife need to be faithful to each other and respect each other. But there are very few people who can really get married without even quarreling. Even if they quarrel with their mouths and tongues, how can a couple in ordinary years not quarrel. Moreover, feelings will pass in ordinary years. Can you guarantee that you will only be loyal to the person you marry for the rest of your life? In the beginning, it is okay because you are in love, but in the long run, because of the long-term running-in, you will no longer be more attractive to others. Are you excited?

In ordinary years, everyone has a restless heart. Today's society is so colorful, it's really easy to fall in love easily. With various social software, it's really easy to fall in love with someone easily. 4. Social relations are complex, and human hearts are even scarier

Many people tend to ignore one thing, and that is human nature. But human nature changes. Over time, with experience, and after his environment changes, his whole person will also change. It is said that although ghosts are scary, they do not hurt people at all. But the human heart is invisible and intangible. If you don't pay attention to other people's designs, your family relationship will break down.

In general, there are too few relationships where we can firmly choose each other and love each other wholeheartedly, especially in this increasingly selfish era, where people just want to protect themselves. Not to mention the willingness to give heart and soul to marriage.

5. There are too few people who know how to manage.

In fact, it is not that people do not desire marriage, but more that they are afraid that they will not be able to manage a marriage well. Marriage is different from love. Marriage requires daily necessities, but love is more of a feeling, a vigorous feeling. This is why many people can live happily in love, but not in marriage. The main reason is that there are too few people who know how to run a business.

Marriage is not easy, but you have to do it and cherish it, but there are too few people who really understand it. This is also one of the reasons why people are becoming more and more disappointed with marriage. And marriage will greatly restrict the career development of women, but it is different for men. Like many men, their careers will only become more prosperous as they continue to develop. Women, on the other hand, have different appearance requirements and family concerns, so their pursuits are also different. To summarize, who makes the decision in marriage

Precisely because marriage is subject to too much interference from the outside world, true and pure marriages are as rare as treasures in modern times. It's not that people don't desire marriage, but they are afraid of encountering a bad marriage, so it's better not to get married. But life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten, and there is a certain reason why marriages can continue from ancient times to the present. In addition to getting married and having children, having someone to rely on when you are old, and in the long years of loneliness, you really need the presence of such a warm person.

However, contemporary people regard marriage as too complicated. Some people are born with the courage to hate and love, and they can eventually gain happiness. Life is a play, and some people say you can play it however you want, because whether you play it or not, it will eventually come to an end. Although there is sorrow in the world, there is also happiness. Now that we have come to this home of life, we should live our best.

In the new marriage law, there is a very clear division between the interest relationship and the relationship between husband and wife. This does not exist for the high-priced betrothal gifts and the idea of ??selling girls for glory that were popular in society in the past. Many people try to use marriage to obtain greater benefits, which itself is illegal and morally unfavorable to the development of society. The entire society needs to move forward and develop better, so there will be restrictions on marriage.

However, for those who have tried marriage or those who have not yet been married, they still lack courage. This is affected by the entire social atmosphere. I hope everyone can get rid of this inertia as soon as possible and live the future you want!