First of all, I want to give you a big hug. When I was pregnant in June, I should have set my mind at rest and expected the baby to arrive safely, but suddenly I faced a debt of 400 thousand, which really would collapse.
Analysis of this matter, now pregnant for 6 months, can not do abortion, can only do induced labor, I heard that it is very harmful to the body, is tantamount to giving birth. And the child has basically taken shape, and you have felt his existence for several months. As a novice mother, it must be amazing and sad. Therefore, it is almost impossible to abort the child. Talk to your parents and see what to do. After all, it is a small life, and it is recommended to be born, but there may be many difficulties in the future, so we should be mentally prepared to face them positively. If you have a miscarriage and divorce, you just get rid of your current debt, and it will be painful to think about it later.
Married for a year, plus the previous love time, you should know something about your husband's personality. Is it good for you? Do you work hard? His debt is due to his mother's treatment, which shows that he knows how to be grateful and affectionate. From this perspective, it should be good. Is he an only child? Do you have any brothers, sisters and relatives who can tide over the difficulties together?
If your husband is reliable and your family supports you, try to make money and collect money to pay off your debts. In two or three years, you will survive. Really can't. Sell the house for money first, and then try to buy it back later. In the past two years, many people are also heavily in debt and are trying to find a way to go ashore. However, after experiencing the epidemic and life and death, we will gradually find that it is difficult to pay off the debt, and people will have no it for a lifetime. Nothing is more important than a healthy and safe family.
Good luck!
Divorce! Neither of you is wrong. Seeing your mother-in-law proves that this man is very filial. Neither of you is wrong, but you should also think of your children. We can discuss it together. If your credit card is overdue, you will become an old lai, which will have an impact on your child's future. As soon as the child is born, you have each other in your heart and face the immediate difficulties together. Helping him raise a good child is the last thing you can do for him. He just has no family pressure and can go out wholeheartedly.
As long as it's not gambling, it's understandable to see your mother, but you shouldn't get married without telling you. It is normal for people to be poor and rich all their lives. The key is to see how your husband plans his future life and let him give you an explanation. Don't abort the child easily, and plan his future life well. Since your husband can do this for his mother, he must be a grateful person. You will get through this together with your husband. I'm sure your husband will be grateful to you all his life. Look ahead. Things have happened, find a way to solve it, I wish you get out of trouble as soon as possible, and your child is healthy!
After six months of pregnancy, my husband owed more than 400,000 overdue credit cards and online loans. What should I do? After reading your description, I owe foreign debt to treat my mother. In this case, some people say that it is not appropriate to divorce children. Six-month-old children have been formed, and they are also a life, so they should not be done. Even if the house is recovered, renting a house should not be done. It's totally wrong to owe foreign debts, because he didn't do anything right. Although he is a little wrong, he won't abort and divorce the child at once. Even after divorce, there are many single women taking care of their children. No one abandoned all their children. People can be selfish, but not too selfish.
In order to repay the loan, you can sell a house and rent a house. This matter should be discussed from a long-term perspective. It is very unwise to divorce immediately after aborting the child. Rent a house first, and wait until the baby is born. If the man works hard enough, the money is not a small amount, but it is not a big amount. Remember, people are not important things except life and death. After today and yesterday, nothing matters. The problem depends on how to face it. You can't get divorced because of something. Everyone has a reason to live, and it can't be said that they are all divorced.
You remember, as long as two people face it together, as long as they are willing to do things in a down-to-earth manner, then it is not a matter at all. People can't be smooth sailing, and no one can divorce if something happens. If it is the foreign debt he owes without doing anything, it will support your divorce. He's not like that. Really don't listen to others' nonsense. It's easy to talk standing up.
There are many people renting houses. Are they all divorced? Can't they live? It is normal for anyone to encounter some bumps in life. Don't divorce because of something. Marriage is no joke. You should face it correctly. Escape is the most incompetent performance. Don't be paranoid, rent a house and sell it at once. Life goes on, the baby is coming, and everything will pass.
It's worse to cancel a child There is nothing wrong with children. Men are self-motivated and willing to endure hardships, and the money can be paid off in five years. Let's see how men behave. Don't be too realistic
God, there are so many people who have aborted their children. This is a life, the flesh and blood of you and your husband. Don't you feel sad to get rid of it?
First of all, it must be wrong for your husband to hide this before marriage.
Second, your husband saved his mother with this money. He is a man who values affection and righteousness. If he is too cold-blooded to save his mother, would you like to be with him? One day you are ill, can you count on him to save you?
Third, you are married. Should honor * * *, although it may be difficult at the beginning, but as long as we work together in Qi Xin, 400,000 may be paid off in a year or two. There will be many happy days in the coming decades.
First of all, you said you were pregnant for six months. I think you have the idea of divorce. We don't know how your husband owes more than 400 thousand step by step. Leave if you don't know, but if you know from beginning to end, just follow your heart!
Wow, if it were me, I would abort the baby and get a divorce. Think about it. Your husband is in so much debt that the interest is very high. Almost every month, your husband's salary is used to fill this hole. What to eat and drink with children? How do you ensure the quality of life? Stop loss in time. Giving birth to a child will only be harmful.
Have a baby. The difficulty passed quickly.