I have a house in my name and am in the process of repaying the loan. Can I still tell my boyfriend? You have a house in your own name. It doesn't matter whether you tell your boyfriend or not. But you must tell your boyfriend, what are your plans for this house in the future? You must make an agreement with your boyfriend in advance. Nowadays, we all have one child in a family, and everyone has a house? As long as you and your wife grow old together, the houses of both families will belong to you, so you don’t need to spend so much thought on this house, because you are husband and wife