Those who think they are happy are the happiest, and those who think they are unhappy are the most unfortunate.

In the past two days, a good friend came to me to talk about some family matters. The house she bought with a loan for her wedding was the down payment from the husband. The loan was repaid by the husband over the years. The house was renovated not long after , she took her mother and sister to live with her.

There is always friction between two generations living together, and my mother and sister are not hard-working people, so there are inevitably some conflicts. This time, my sister ate snail noodles at home, which was very delicious, and my brother-in-law joked He said that there was a smell on her clothes, so my sister stopped doing it.

On the one hand, she felt that her sister was being unreasonable, and on the other hand, she felt that her sister was ungrateful. In addition, the mother was in the middle of the fight with Xini, and the younger sister was in the middle to stir things up. Things have progressed to the point where the younger sister no longer wants to talk to her brother-in-law, and the husband also wants them to move out.

It is difficult for an upright official to deal with household matters, and I have no way to make decisions for her on many things, so I can only ask her what she thinks. When I talked about this matter with my lover this morning, I also mentioned a lot about the causes and consequences of her family. It is definitely not a simple matter that caused such a trouble.

My friend thinks that she is good enough to her sister, and her brother-in-law is also very kind to her, but my sister is still slandering her, and even sent a message saying that she doesn’t think the man is very good to her...

My wife said, let’s not talk about anything else, let’s just say that letting them live in our home for so long, isn’t that right?

Whether others treat you well or not, everyone has a scale to measure and compare.

But after all, if you think the other person is good to you, then you think it is good; if you think it is not good enough, then it is not good!

Then my lover reviewed the people who helped him when he was in trouble, and of course the people who didn’t help him. Obviously he didn’t say why others didn’t lend him money, he just said that at that time He borrowed money to buy a computer and to make money by doing a side job. It seemed natural that he didn't receive the money. Later, he began to recall his most miserable experience, but he also felt that compared with his parents, these hardships were nothing.

There are many things in the world that are beyond human control, and many processes are irreversible. If you can't change the environment, you can change yourself. If you can't change the facts, you can change your attitude. If you can't change the past, you can work hard on the present.

If you want to be a happy person, you will become a happy person! ! !