First, when parents start to borrow money from us, they will feel that they have grown up, and their parents are old and need the care of their children. When parents start to borrow money from themselves, it proves that their ability is deteriorating and our ability is growing. At this time, children should help their parents selflessly and repay their kindness. They must have met some difficulties before they borrowed money from their children. At this time, children must care more about their parents, not only lend them money, but also help them solve their difficulties and comfort their mood.
Second, parents borrow money from us. Another possibility is that because children spend too much money, parents use borrowing money as an excuse to help their children save money. Some people start to earn their own wages after graduation, without any pressure and will spend a lot of money. At this time, parents will use borrowing money from their children as an excuse to make a long-term plan to help their children save money. In the future, when faced with life events such as buying a house and getting married, parents will return the money to their children, which is also helping their children manage their finances in disguise.
Third, some families are not a child, and parents want all children to be happy. At this time, they may help some children with poor conditions. Some families may have two or three children. After these children get married, their parents are too old to help these children in trouble. So they will borrow money from children with good conditions and help children with poor living conditions. In fact, this kind of mood is understandable. Although the children are married, they will always be their own children in their parents' minds, and parents always want to help them more. No matter what reason parents borrow money from their children, children should try their best to help their parents solve their difficulties, and don't let their parents worry about money, otherwise they will not be qualified to be their own children.
How did you feel when your parents borrowed money from you?