It depends on family conditions and parents' understanding of this family. If the family conditions are good and the parents of this family think it is better to give it back to their children, then give it back. Generally speaking, since the bride price money is borrowed, the family conditions will not be so good. After marriage, the children will eventually have to pay it back, which will cause the family that the children have just established to be overburdened and have great economic pressure, which will lead to quarrels between husband and wife to some extent. So I think it's better to do what you can, and there is no need to borrow much money as a bride price to save face.
Now that I have married a daughter-in-law, the house, car, bride price and other things given by the man are all accumulated with money. It will basically cost half the family's savings. Even many families need to borrow money to pay the bride price. Higher and higher bride price money has made many men's families miserable and heavily in debt.
And should the bride price money be returned by the newlyweds? Generally speaking, parents love their children. If they are healthy and have the ability to earn money, they will not put the debt on their children and will not burden the newlyweds.
Unless they can't make money or have a son to get married, they really can't pay back. At this time, you should return to this debt. You are all family. You can't watch your parents and stand by and work hard! Even if you don't pay off all your debts, you should pay them back appropriately to release some pressure on your parents.
At that time, when I got married, my husband's family was relatively poor and collected 4 thousand yuan. At that time, the surrounding bride price market was around 10 thousand. So I told my husband that your family would borrow some more to make up 8 thousand, and I would use the wedding money to pay off the debts I owed. In our hometown, the woman will accompany the man as a bride price.
On the second day of my marriage, I paid off some debts with the 4000 yuan my parents gave me. In the next six months, I saw my in-laws were sick and pitiful, and I helped my in-laws pay back several thousand yuan.
I don't know how much bride price the subject wanted at the beginning, and how much did her family marry? If there are too many betrothal gifts, resulting in too many in-laws in debt, you should consciously pay back the money!
Lawyer's answer: according to the situation of this case, we must first determine who the debtor is. According to the description of the parties, the debtor is the parents of the man, and the parents of the man borrow money from others to give the bride price to the parties. From a just point of view, the debt of the man's parents is not your own debt, so from a legal point of view, there is no obligation to repay. From the perspective of family harmony, if a family is entangled in debt in life, it is very unfavorable to the family. I suggest that we communicate together and solve the problem as soon as possible.
If the bride price money is borrowed by the man's parents, then after marriage, the son should help his parents pay off the debt of the bride price money. If the man's parents are in good health, work hard and earn more money, they may bear debts. If your parents are in poor health and don't make money, who will pay you back if your son doesn't? Let your wife ask for it, and let you compare with your neighbors. After you get married, you have to be psychologically prepared to taste the debt of the bride price.
Isn't this just about the mage? It's another social phenomenon! To be solved Give it back to me if you can! Why do I say this is a social phenomenon? Around me, I also heard a lot about this. Now there are more and more bride price, plus houses, cars, electrical appliances and so on. These make the old people breathless, and some get married and divorced, which is simply fatal! Old people with children must look after their children. Some are very sensible, some just say: children are your grandchildren, you should look after them! What's this called? No wonder there are not a few people who die because of marriage now?
Parents are old and unable to repay! You really need to pay this money back! Father's debt has not been paid, let alone the bride price money to your family, right?
I think marriage is a matter of two people, if it is a matter of two families.
Even the bride price should be given by their family, and now you are married. At the beginning, the bride price money was borrowed, and they were willing to borrow money to go to the bride price. Even if you have no money, it represents your position. Since they have no money to pay back, they should follow suit.
On the other hand, if your parents borrow money for your business, and they don't pay it now, don't you have the heart to pay it back? Your husband can't bear to watch his parents pay back, so forget it together.
They are all married. As long as the husband is sensible, it is very important for the family to live in harmony. Don't bargain for these.
Parents can't afford it. If you don't return it, the bride price will be enough.
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