Unfortunately, her husband, Mr Chen, died suddenly. In order to sell the house and repay the bank loan, Ms. Li had no choice but to let her brother-in-law register the house back to her name. As a result, the husband and wife turned against each other and fabricated a lie that the house was legally purchased by them. Ms. Li failed to negotiate and had to resort to the court. After verification by the court, it was pronounced that the house belonged to Ms. Li.
Naturally, the behavior of the husband and wife is really annoying. Ms. Li kindly helped, but what she got was this cruel response, which was really chilling. My brother-in-law and his wife were blinded by greed. In order to obtain interests that do not belong to oneself, it is even more hateful to distort reality and abandon honesty. But in real life, it is not uncommon for people to be cheated.
Such a thing happened in Shanghai. Wu Mou, 25, came back from Brazil and was entrusted by a friend to help bring two boxes of red wine into China. As a result, drugs were found in the red wine bottle, and Wu Mou was immediately under the control of the police, who may face criminal punishment.
A court in Guangxi also publicized a loan contract dispute case. In this case, the defendant Li borrowed money from the bank in his own name out of kindness. However, until the repayment date, my friend still didn't mean to pay back the money. As a result, Li was sued by the bank to the court. Although Li argued that the loan was not for his own use, he could only repay it himself because he signed the loan contract.
Being ready to help others is, of course, a fine tradition accumulated by China for a long time. But while helping others, we need to be cautious and give priority to protecting our rights. If Ms. Li Can signs the relevant agreement with her brother-in-law before changing the house registration, it will not be difficult to give evidence later, nor will it give her brother-in-law the opportunity to distort the facts at will.
By the same token, if Wu Mou could carefully check what he brought before he promised to help him with his luggage, he might not be caught in an illegal dilemma. If Li Can had consulted the legal person in advance and understood the responsibility of helping the lender, he would not have assumed debts that did not belong to him for no reason.
It can only be said that it is not necessary to harm people, and it is indispensable to prevent people. When spreading goodwill, a little more caution may save you a lot of trouble.
And those who are helped are not only ungrateful, but also bite back, which is obviously extremely hateful. The generosity of others is an obligation, not a responsibility; Being grateful when receiving help is the foundation of being a man. It is obviously against the moral bottom line to take others' help as a stepping stone for one's own self-interest, which is not only selfish but also dishonest.
In fact, while deceiving others, they also lost their credibility. Imagine how a person who regards honesty as nothing can regain the trust of others. What they do will not only make them lose some friends, but also make them fall into a social deadlock, which is hard to be accepted sincerely.
At the moment when the country is striving to build a credible society, all acts that violate integrity are unacceptable. Because, in many cases, dishonesty not only affects both parties involved, but is more likely to poison the whole social atmosphere. Living in society, people are good at being guided by the behavior of others. When a series of "lessons from the past" happen, people will take this as a warning. But the resulting distrust of others is likely to affect whether or how people will help others in the future.
If we say that the case of honesty is a positive energy that people believe, it is conducive to creating a harmonious and mutual social scene; Then the above-mentioned dishonest behavior is undoubtedly whipping people's caution, sowing the seeds of doubt for everyone, easily causing mutual distrust and having a great impact on a harmonious society.
Admittedly, it is necessary to disclose similar cases. Exposing the "negative" will help more people to be vigilant and protect their rights and interests; And warn those who betray integrity and have bad intentions to stop in time. But at the same time, we should not lose hope for society and others because of a few "mouse droppings". After all, there are still many good people in society.