First of all, this result is definitely not what your husband wants!
1. Failure in starting a business does not mean the end of life.
I also failed to start a business. Now there is no house, no car, no savings and heavy debts. Of course, I have some relatives. It has been almost half a year since the debt crisis broke out.
From the confusion and fear at the beginning, to explaining and guaranteeing the repayment plan to the creditors, and now adjusting the mentality step by step, waiting for the next step to take shape slowly, every step forward is very happy.
In addition, I give myself a three-month buffer period, spend three months trying and making mistakes, and then decide what to do next!
Failure is not terrible, what is terrible is choosing to give up yourself.
Entrepreneurship is not like doing business. You can learn from experience. Entrepreneurs often take a narrow path, and failure is a high probability. If the stop loss point had been set at the beginning, the result would not be so bad!
Now that things have happened, I advise my husband to accept the reality as soon as possible and cheer up. At this time, I'm afraid I can't get out. It seems that even if he failed, he was once a big boss. It's a shame to go out to work!
Put your mind right, think about your initial intention of starting a business, think about your own advantages, and use them as soon as possible. At least, to make life work, you can't always let yourself sink!
Secondly, families should support each other.
1. As a man's last line of defense, the last thing he should give up is his wife.
At the beginning of your husband's business, you may agree or disagree. Although your husband didn't listen to you at first, he must regret it now, but it's normal for men not to put down their face, you know!
A wife should be the last line of defense in a man's heart, because your husband understands that no matter what he will lose, he will never lose his family, that is, you! Yes, you are his family. At this time, your position in his heart even surpassed his parents!
Pay less attention to some practical problems. Houses and cars can be bought again, and the quality of life can be flexibly adjusted. Children who don't go to cram school are geniuses, not fools. An alarmist attitude will make you sink more thoroughly than your husband!
2. What should be considered more than feelings is livelihood.
At this time, if a man is still praising his wife, you should be careful. There must be a ghost here!
A failed man is like a wounded wolf. For the sake of self-esteem and face, he had to hide in the angle and lick the wound. What can you ask him at this time? If you don't drink or make trouble, you should be a good man!
At this time, it's not what you need him to do for you, but what your husband needs you to do for him. This is what you should think. Love is the most unreliable at this time, so it is more realistic to think about how to make full use of the travel expenses in your hand!
Write at the end:
Your hard work, people around you can understand, your grievances, your husband can actually feel the same. But in the face of the embarrassment of life, can't these be put aside for a while?
A person shoulders all the worries of past lives, and stays alone at the cold window for a long time. How do you know he's not saving his strength?
When he was a blockbuster, he danced for nine days!