As a public relations advertising practitioner, I am very interested in paying attention to the public relations Hong Kong drama "Behind the scenes players". In my impression, Hong Kong dramas are good at stories that need more emotional intelligence, strategies and means, such as workplace struggles and infighting among giants. So I got a lot of public relations people from the "behind-the-scenes players" to reverse the deep layout of public opinion, which made me very addicted.
Westworld refreshed the theme of my TV series, and The Big Bang Theory 10 and Broke Sisters 6 are both good snacks. The TV series to be discussed with you today is a Japanese TV series released this spring-Family Form. Why do I recommend this Japanese drama? That's because I have a complaint about it, because I choose to live alone at present.
The story goes something like this: Jing Daole Li Yong, a 39-year-old man who is about to turn 30, works in a well-known stationery company in Tokyo. He scrimped and saved, and finally bought his own house with a loan and lived in a high-class apartment in the middle of downtown. He regards this house as his castle and is ready to start his perfect life. He said in his monologue: A long time ago, a man named meredith said that once a man was over forty, he would marry his habit. Therefore, the 39-year-old man decided to live alone.
He keeps fit, eats organic fruits and vegetables, rides his bike on the road every week, frequents small bars with high style and tastes high-end beer from all over the world. This pace of life makes him feel very satisfied. Until Jing Daole's father moved into his stepson, invaded his castle and disrupted his rhythm. In a rage, Jing Daole began to collude with the "invaders".
? The following is the feeling of watching Japanese TV dramas for a year. Japanese TV dramas tolerate and understand many lifestyles that violate traditional concepts, and do not judge easily. They also depict life truly, but not so many chickens fly and dogs jump to present real life in domestic TV dramas. They are more willing to calm down and explore and think and find a way out. This is a rare progress for a country that respects and protects traditional culture.
Jing Daole, the male host, has his own thoughts on social interaction: "Why do people like to form groups?" It already belongs to social and national groups. When we are together, we will be squeezed by all kinds, just like being squeezed by the state, and we have to pay taxes. Once I belong to a family group, my time and money will be squeezed I don't want that. "
So he doesn't like the family-based lifestyle, keeps a certain distance from everyone, and doesn't let his family and friends invade his territory easily. Even if he had no choice but to let his father stay, he would try to defend the free territory of the second floor compartment and become a forbidden area for intruders.
In the process of watching this TV series, I seem to be watching myself.
Similarly, they are not optimistic about the contractual relationship of marriage, keep a distance from most people, like a regular and healthy lifestyle with their own interests, and feel helpless and angry at their families' constant attempts to break through the castle.
In the constant "battle" with her father, the elder sister was gradually infected by her father who insisted on familism, and gradually got used to the family environment with "outsiders" in her subconscious, although she was still eagerly looking forward to her father returning home with her younger brother as soon as possible and ending her "winter" of aggression.
Under the interference of her father, the elder sister was forced to attend the wedding of colleagues and friends' parties, and was often harassed by enthusiastic colleagues, and was loved by young girls whose life goal was to get married, which also confirmed the pervasive invasion of group lifestyle on single people, and all this short and thorough subversion often brought pure joy to the elder sister. Therefore, based on social attributes, everyone has the need to integrate into the group; Based on self-awareness, everyone has the appeal of getting rid of the burden of the group. Many people enjoy the harmony and happiness of the group, and many people want to have the ease and freedom of living alone.
That's why there is such a beautiful setting in the TV series. Jing Daole, who is self-disciplined and quiet, met the rape flower with the leaves of the bear valley similar to his three views.
The 32-year-old single divorced female supervisor also has no expectation of marriage, works hard and has her own small life with rich rules.
After a year of meeting, knowing each other, experiencing contradictions and conflicts, sharing weal and woe, two lonely young people in the city have a little concern for each other that they don't want to make public.
Finally, at his father's funeral, Jing Daole showed his sincerity and fulfilled his father's wish.
Many fans of the drama concluded disappointedly: This script was written for "Bai Wan", a young man who insisted on celibacy! In the previous episodes, the script described the behavior and psychology of single young people very delicately and impressively. Finally, it is inevitable to let men and women who also insist on not getting married live together. This major turning point will really make people doubt the real purpose of the play. But after carefully thinking about the meeting process of the couple and investigating the root cause of their celibacy, we have to understand the settings of the screenwriter.
Why do men and women especially want to live alone, feel that family is a trouble and a burden, and even don't want to try to form their own family? From the behavior that parents of two families intrude into their children's lives without saying hello, and the emotional entanglements experienced by the hero and heroine, it is speculated that the hero and heroine may encounter obstacles in the process of trying to communicate.
But if there is a person in this world who is similar to himself, understands each other's thoughts and is willing to pour out all his troubles and grievances to each other, then why should he give up this precious opportunity given by God, which may be less than 1% probability? When a celibate wants another person to live in his castle, he must get more happiness from this person than when he gets along with himself.
Jing Daole and Xiong Gu, a way of getting along without getting married as the ultimate goal, may be the ideal ending for celibates, while enjoying the company of family form and protecting their independent space!
So, why do you choose celibacy?