It really depends on how much money you have. If you have borrowed a lot, and I have asked the other party for it several times, and the other party is unwilling to pay back the money, then I think you can get your property back through legal channels. But before that, what you have to do is to discuss it with the other party again, and then find legal channels after the discussion is fruitless, at least let the other party know that you are serious, not joking with her. You have attached great importance to this problem, and I hope she can also attach importance to it. Of course, many times, when you really tell her that you want to solve the problem through legal channels, she may give you the money directly, because after all, no one wants to be sued by her predecessor.

In fact, I think it's best not to involve too much money between lovers, because when you are in love, no one knows what will happen if you don't love me. Yes, now we are in love, so if you ask me for money, I will feel embarrassed not to borrow it. If you don't lend it to you as if I don't love you enough, you will accuse me of not being able to do this, and you must not love you. So to show that I love you, when you ask me for money, even if I don't have it.

But the premise is that if we are in love, even if you don't want to pay back the money, I don't mind. I'm just afraid that we will fall in love halfway, find out that they are not suitable for each other, and then separate. At this time, I want to get my money back, only to find that you are completely unwilling to pay it back. This is actually a very embarrassing thing, because it is not a good thing for couples to ask for money, but I hope you can be honest.

If you don't want to pay me back, I don't have to ask for it myself. I may sue you, and this will be awkward. Not only will it embarrass you, but it will also show that I am embarrassed. My old love became a plaintiff and a defendant because of money, which was embarrassing.