Some people say, "7 to 17 years old is ten years, while 17 to 27 years old is a lifetime."

It seems that since our twentieth birthday, no matter how many years later, we always feel that we are still the girl of twenty.

However, our parents are old, and we have to face more and more life pressures. However, this society is unfair to women at all.

"God is blatantly unfair, while mortals reserve the right to be paranoid. 』

So, I summed up some things that girls should do at the age of 28, hoping to help you ~

0 1, cultivate the consciousness of "double independence"

(1) Spiritual independence

If you have a date at this time, you can visit the naive girl once in a while, but don't focus on him. You can love him very much, but don't rely on him.

You can't unscrew the bottle cap when he is around, but you have to be alone when he is not around.

Occasionally weakness will stimulate a man's desire for protection, but if he is too clingy, he will be rejected sooner or later and will not be independent.

If there is no object at this time, use your time alone to improve yourself. Friends can play and share together, but don't rely on them.

"Don't rely on a person easily, it will become your habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual pillar. Independence will make you more open. 』

② Economic independence

Economic independence should be done as soon as you graduate.

In fact, many people have begun to support themselves through some skills they learned in college. I know a junior girl who earns 3,000 yuan a month through writing.

Of course, it is normal for universities not to think so much or to redo their studies, but after graduation, you really shouldn't ask for money from home.

At this time, whether you are married or not, it is cool to be financially independent, not dependent on anyone, and to support yourself with the money you earn.

"Remember, you want to bully others, also want to support yourself. 』

02. Learn financial management knowledge.

When you have some money in hand, don't think about buying luxury goods or things that are easy to depreciate.

It's time to learn how to manage money.

Start by insisting on bookkeeping. Bookkeeping allows you to clearly understand the monthly expenses, master the direction of spending money, and save money and money.

When you learn how to manage money, you can become Qian Shengqian, and you will have the so-called "income after sleep". Of course, the premise is that you really have to learn to manage your finances steadily and never be greedy.

Once you taste the benefits of financial management, you will get farther and farther away from the moonlight family. Having money on hand is our greatest advantage.

"Financial problems always exist. If we ignore them, they will become a negative force and damage our quality of life. 』

03, pay attention to skin care and health.

Anti-aging is very important.

Stay up late less, staying up late will not only make people bald, but also make people old. No amount of expensive eye cream and face cream can make up for the damage caused by staying up late for a long time.

① Clean the skin, and it is best to use amino acid facial cleanser for sensitive muscles.

2 Hydrate well, not only drink plenty of water every day, but also apply a mask frequently.

It's really useful to wear sunscreen when going out.

Make-up remover should be thorough, residual makeup will make pores thicker, and it will also lead to closed mouth and acne.

⑤ Supplement vitamins and high protein to resist aging from the inside out.

Second, health is the capital of revolution.

① Try to sleep before 1 1, do not smoke and drink less.

Choose a favorite sport and keep exercising two or three times a week.

It is best to have a physical examination once a year, and gynecology should also pay attention to it.

4. Be less angry. Anger can lead to hyperplasia of mammary glands.

"Love yourself is the beginning of a romantic life. 』

04. Develop sideline business.

Developing a sideline is actually learning a skill that can make money outside of work.

In this era when prices are not directly proportional to wages, after paying the rent and meeting the demand for food and shelter, there is not much left in wages.

There will also be some people who are keen on spending in advance and want to buy all kinds of things that they can't afford. If the salary is not enough, you can only buy it by installment or loan.

At this time, if you continue to rely on monthly salary to maintain, you will fall into an infinite loop. Always trapped by life, never save money.

Therefore, it is particularly important to learn a skill that can make money at this time.

But don't rush to see a doctor, and don't be confused by those part-time jobs that brush and type online. Don't consider any sideline that makes you pay first.

You can learn some skills, such as writing, photography, retouching or video editing.

As long as you persist in the early stage and are not afraid of hardship and fatigue, you will definitely make money in the later stage. If conditions permit, signing up for a class will save a lot of detours.

When you develop a sideline, it can give you the courage to leave when you don't want to go to work.

When taking care of children at home, it can also help you avoid the injustice of asking for money.

Never forget to improve yourself.

(1) should gradually become self-disciplined.

Don't always order takeout after work, you can order it yourself, which is healthy and cheap.

Don't sleep late during the break, get up early for breakfast, tidy up the house and watch a favorite movie. It's really substantial.

Flog should try his best to finish it and be self-motivated. Because the essence of self-discipline is to personally kill another decadent self.

"You should try to be a person worthy of love. Instead of forcing others to like you so badly.

Trying to be different from yesterday's self is the real meaning of bidding farewell to the past, and those who unload their burdens can go further. 』

② Read more books.

Chen Pingyuan once said: "If you haven't studied for a long time and don't feel guilty, it means that you have fallen."

"Reading itself is nothing, but the act of reading means that you don't fully agree with the world, you are still pursuing your personal field, you are still not satisfied, and you are still looking for another possibility, another way of life. After all, reading is a spiritual life. "

If you think there are too many books in the world and don't know what to read, you can read something to improve your cognition, or manage your finances, biographies of celebrities and so on.

When you want to learn a new knowledge, you usually read three books about it, and you will know something about it.

"Most of us mortals lament the lack of talent and creation alone, which is an illusion. In the end, the problem boils down to laziness, procrastination and refusal to study, that's all. 』

Finally, I would like to share three words I like:

You are confused because you read too little and think too much.

Where the eyes can't reach, the words can. Reading is the noblest threshold.

All the happiness pinned on others is temporary, and anyone is a supporting role in your life. Happiness is a power from the heart, and it is something related to yourself.

Above, * * * encourage.