As a man, when he reaches marriageable age, if he doesn't have a suite, he basically loses the chance of blind date.
If you have a house and a car at the same time, it will be a plus item in blind date.
Therefore, some men choose loans to buy houses and cars, which is a common phenomenon in today's urban environment.
In fact, it is not a big problem to buy a house and a car with a loan. What matters is his ability to make money and manage money.
If he works hard, holds an important position in the company, has visible promotion opportunities and has clear goals and plans for himself.
Then mortgage car loan seems to be a threshold in front of us, but it will not actually have a real impact on such men.
What are you most afraid of? What he is afraid of is being complacent because he has a house and a car. He thought that he had reached the social value standard before, didn't work hard, had no plan for the future, and was extravagant all day, didn't know how to manage money, and had no chance to make money and get promoted.
These are things that you should consider carefully. But in the end, you can ask these questions because you have no heart for him.
All the girls around me, no matter how different their values and consumption views are, always meet the boy they like. Even if this boy has shortcomings that everyone can see at a glance, she still chooses to turn a blind eye, turn a blind eye and deceive herself to stick to it.
On the contrary, if you meet a suitor you don't like, no matter how kind, honest and well-matched, she still can't interest them.
This is a true portrayal of most women in love. Obviously, you don't feel irrational about the blind date. Naturally, you will look at each other's problems rationally, and you also know how rational you are when you face him.
As for your question, do girls in love need to spend more money?
My suggestion is: equal consumption!
For example: he invites you to a movie, and then you invite him to dinner after the movie; He gives you a gift on Valentine's Day, and you give him a gift of the same value in return. You don't have to take it for granted that he has to pay more for daily dating because of his financial burden. It's hard to accept a boy who has great self-esteem and wants to impress you. If the other party ties himself behind his back and accepts your generosity on the grounds that he has a mortgage and a car loan, then I personally don't like this relationship.
Because Yu Qing doesn't care about your feelings, Li Yu's house and car are all in his name, which belongs to pre-marital property and has nothing to do with you.
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