1, always have a childlike innocence.
A good father must first have a childlike innocence. Once upon a time, we grew up unconsciously by an ignorant child. However, due to the pressure of life, we lost the innocence of childhood.
Often face the society's face and show it to children, but don't forget that children's world is a fairy tale world, which can't stand the cold wind and rain of adults; Therefore, if you want to be a good father, you must first take off the mask of adults and find your inner innocence. Only in this way can you enter the world of children.
2. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
As fathers and parents, we must not ignore this. This is a common problem of human beings. They can't do it themselves. They always let their children do it. Every day, when you see that your child is not doing well in the exam, you don't help the child analyze the reasons, you just take responsibility and abuse;
In fact, once upon a time, you may not have done well in the exam, so when there are some daily chores, you must put yourself in the shoes and think about whether you can do well. If you don't want to or can't do it well, please be considerate of your children!
3. Set an example for children
No matter who you are, you should not deny the power of example; Children's world is pure and fair, and parents' words and deeds will be seen and remembered by children. Nowadays, many parents play mobile phones every day, but let their children study textbooks endlessly, which is euphemistically called being good to their children. On the surface, it looks quite tall, but it is actually a manifestation of ignorance.
In fact, when you pick up your mobile phone to play, your child's rebellious mentality will arise. He will definitely think, why can't you play? Therefore, children no longer believe in you! So we must set a correct example for our children.
4. Learn to respect children
Children need to be respected. Don't think that just because you are his parents, you can treat your children worse than you and take the so-called education and lessons for granted. Actually, it's really not like this. Your disrespect will be passed on to your children, which will make them feel inferior. At the same time, they will have a certain ability to survive when they grow up, and they will not respect others or society.
Then this kind of result, there is no doubt that children will be unacceptable to society! Therefore, in normal life, in getting along bit by bit, we should learn to respect and educate our children to respect!
5. Learn to be sincere
This is very important. As parents, don't pretend to be sincere in ordinary life. We should lead by example and lead by example; Always treat life and friends with a sincere heart, so that children can feel your warmth and sunshine; So as to let children know the meaning of sincerity imperceptibly, so as to establish sincere friendship with children.