In fact, the problem you have to face is believed to be a love problem that most men and women born in the 1980s will encounter.

The average price of the house you mentioned is more than 700,000, maybe it is in Some second-tier cities. I live in Guangzhou, and the average price of slightly better houses in Guangzhou is already around 1.5 million. In Shanghai and Beijing, houses are even more expensive, and the poor cannot even afford them.

High housing prices have already It is an indisputable fact. You cannot change it at all. This is regulated according to the laws of market economy. Where there is demand, there will be supply. No one will buy it, everyone will grab it, and developers cannot afford to raise prices.

< p>You see your mother is so old. She wants her children to live a stable life so that they will not have to worry about themselves for a hundred years. Moreover, it is only natural for children to be filial to their parents. Sometimes you should listen to what the elders say.< /p>

But happiness should be in your own hands. If you want to be a filial daughter, you will inevitably violate the original intention of the elderly. But if you want love, you can only do things that go against the wishes of your family. No matter what What, you have to make a painful choice in a dilemma!

However, the problem may not be as complicated as you think. The most important thing is your boyfriend, but the most important thing is not his wallet. Stunted development, but his ability and potential.

Mom is not only considering that your boyfriend is relatively poor now, but also considering his future. The person you like cannot really provide some bright spots. Support the elderly and let them see his bright future. They analyze the problem and are very objective. They are not selling you like a commodity as you said. Do you think they are so old, do they still dream of getting rich? Even if you Your husband is very rich, but this wealth cannot accompany the elderly to heaven and enjoy happiness.

Complaining about real estate developers and complaining about your family not understanding you are relatively childish ideas. If you want to choose love, give up I believe no one can really stop you from achieving a stable material life. But you must also really think about yourself and your future.

If your boyfriend is really motivated and motivated He has potential and a lot of brains. He will not be in such a difficult situation just a few years after graduation. If you really love him, you should give him a chance for half a year or a year. See what happens under your high pressure. Whether his work ability and job position can see a meter of sunshine. This will ensure your own future happiness, and also allow the elderly to trust their daughter to him with peace of mind.

Of course. , if you don't mind anything, just him is enough. You can also marry him for any reason. You are the heart of the old man. No matter how you grow up, they will eventually accept your wishes.

Give a boyfriend a plan for you and let him tell you and your family that he is capable and has the ability to make you happy and stable for the rest of your life. Of course, don’t forget that you have to work harder to improve yourself. , *** and we run your own romantic cabin.

Due to the high land prices, many of my friends actually rent houses to get married. But this doesn’t mean anything. Living in a big house may not necessarily Happiness, temporarily renting a small house is also a motivation for life, and it is quite interesting!

I wish you can live happily together...