Some people say that there are ten couples in the world, and some people say that there is no morality of marriage without love. As a whole, we all know that love is the foundation of marriage, but real marriage is more cruel than love. There are many things attached to marriage, first of all, economic materials, then family relations, and then eating, drinking and clothing. Some people say that girls are unhappy. Some people say that there is no blessed marriage in China. These are all reasonable. You're just talking now. You can't get married. Entering the marriage state, there is no romance now. Consider many practical problems. If you want to get married, you must make these preparations: first, you can't see your parents. Back to mom, you have to fly and take the train. It took you a long time. When I meet something I don't want to leave, I can only bear it silently, because I can't answer my mother's complaints in time. It can't be so beautiful after marriage, because mom is far away. Can't come back. Suffering may be silent.
Living environment is different, you must adapt to male life. A girl in our village married to a far away place. People used to eat two meals a day. She began to marry the past. Later, my boyfriend and I moved in together. First, I left a house, and then I borrowed money to buy a house in my work city. So far, she said, it's really a pity to get married. The closed village felt desperate at that time. Fortunately, two people finally escaped from the remote control. I have fallen in love with my boyfriend. I dare not tell my parents. My mother reminds you, what should I do? A little more. This is his life background. Because of the distance, some male compatriots may temporarily hide some uncomfortable side. This is also psychologically prepared. You know, before marriage, the more you know, the more disappointed you will be.
You get married there, and if one day, I find that I don't know what I did before I got married, I will be devastated. For example, my brother, I have a Sichuanese woman who is married. That Sichuan woman found out that my cousin was married because she didn't want to see the wedding photos of her cousin and her ex-woman. She was very unhappy at that time. It is believed that his cousin cheated him and she is married. In a few years, they will refer to it. This is also heartache, and she can't live in this life. According to my personal understanding, although there are some shortcomings, if you really love, it is the best thing to have love in the world. However, there is a small suggestion. You may want to accept your mother's request and blindly date. Maybe I can meet someone I like. This is a local who knows the root of the matter. Not bad. Marriage depends on fate. No matter how cute you and that boy are, there is no fate, so it is difficult to get together. There are too many uncertainties in life.
At present, I can accept my mother's kind persuasion to go on a blind date. When you come, the mountain will not stop. A girl and a boy. It has been talking to a boy. The man is from the northeast. Parents strongly disagree, mother is still playing, pretending, daughter compromises, blind, no, I am blind, I will book. Marriage. It was love at first sight, and now my son is born and life is very happy. She said that love is a dream and marriage wakes up from it. She said that he was lucky to be infected, otherwise he would devote himself to marrying the East. She is satisfied with her present life and her choice. If love is far away, then marriage is very realistic. A home with universal goals in life. Love sometimes happens before marriage. Love and marriage are completely different. Finally, see your own point of view. I don't want to invade my heart. I will stick to my parents because the window is late or I have a rest, and I will hide the light because I can't hide from life, right? Find an opportunity to tell your parents what you think, and tell your parents that your offspring are.