Boyfriend I've known for a long time borrowed money to buy a house and a car. Parents are powerless to help. Men are under considerable pressure. Although I have known each other for a long time, I thought of it. Blind date soon shows that the feelings are not very deep. If there are so many worries now and there is no solution, it is time to stop. Don't get married just because you are old. It's bad for others and yourself. Marriage is not a necessity in life. Let it be. If you live the present, you will have a wonderful life.