In January 1997, on the day after Song Dandan and Ying Da divorced, their son Batu cried and asked his father to play with him.

Song Dandan can't coax Batu well. Forced, Song Dandan called her ex-husband Ying Da, hoping that Ying Da would take time to visit her son.

On the other hand, Ying Da married his new wife, Liang Huanshan, and had a second son named Ying Ruyong.

Looking at her youngest son Ying Ruyong's beloved appearance, Ying Da showed a fatherly smile on his face, and turned around and forgot what his ex-wife Song Dandan said.

what caused Ying Da to be so indifferent to his ex-wife Song Dandan?

When it comes to Ying Da, many young viewers may not know much about him.

If you are a little older, you will know how fierce Ying Da was in those days.

Ying Da Manchu, traced back, the British family was a native of Zhenghuangqi in the late Qing Dynasty, a standardized aristocrat.

Of course, birth doesn't mean anything. What matters is Ying Da's talent. He is versatile and knowledgeable, and has multiple identities such as director, planner, screenwriter and producer.

The program he is in charge of is the signboard of interview programs and the guarantee of ratings. His series of I Love My Family, Northeast Family and Sister Ma have become classics.

Ying Da's ex-wife, Song Dandan, is a nail in the coffin of the Spring Festival Gala. She has brought countless laughter to a wide audience in the Spring Festival Gala for many years and is a famous comedian in China.

Without Song Dandan's Spring Festival Gala, there seems to be less laughter.

Ying Da and Song Dandan are both successful in their careers, but they are emotionally frustrated. When they are together, they are both people who make mistakes and lose their marriage.

It stands to reason that such two people will cherish their hard-won marriage more and more, but after eight years, they suddenly divorced.

even the paparazzi can't smell it, and the signs of divorce are inextricably linked.

The parents are divorced, and the problem of children is before them.

At that time, Song Dandan had long seen her husband and Liang Huan making eyes at each other, and worried that her son Batu would have a hard time in the future, so she won Batu's right to care for him.

Sure enough, Ying Da, who just got divorced, married Liang Huan, and there is no doubt that they have their own children.

When Batu cried and asked Song Dandan why his father didn't come to see him, Ying Da was busy changing diapers and making milk powder for her half-brother, Ying Ruyong.

It stands to reason that even after divorce, Ying Da should have the obligation to visit Batu and occasionally take time to spend time with Batu. However, Ying Da didn't, but simply ignored it.

What caused Ying Da to be so cruel to his eldest son, Batu?

Perhaps this can be traced back to the reason why Ying Da and Song Dandan divorced.

At that time, two people were very famous, one was humorous, the other was funny and cheerful, and everyone thought it was a match made in heaven.

Everything changed until Ying Da met Liang Huan.

Song Dandan's background is not bad either. She was protected and pampered by her brothers and sisters since childhood, and lived like a little princess when she was young.

when she found out that her husband was wrong, she couldn't stand being wronged and decided to file for divorce.

Ying Da's father is a traditional man, and he thinks that quarrelling between husband and wife will be the end of his life, so he advises Song Dandan not to divorce his son.

Song Dandan said that wind is the character of rain. Since you have made up your mind to divorce, you must of course divorce.

So, she happily told Ying Da directly that I was having an affair. Let's get a divorce.

when Ying Da heard this, it was just after his own heart, and they divorced by war. Song Dandan thought that Ying Da would feel guilty, but Ying Da's performance made Song Dandan desperate.

After marriage, Ying Da did not show any nostalgia for this marriage. Besides, I'm going to have a flash marriage with Liang Huan.

When asked by the media why he didn't visit Batu, he said that since he was divorced, he should cut off all contacts.

Unfortunately, Batu was "cut off" by his father's cruel heart.

Without his biological father's love and care, Song Dandan took care of Batu in every way to compensate him.

where Song Dandan is, Batu is.

On the other hand, Batu's half-brother Ying Ruyong lives in a completely different situation.

As soon as Ying Ruyong was born, he was given high hopes by Ying Da, and he was concerned and distressed by Ying Da.

Ying Ruyong liked skating when he was 3 years old, so Ying Da sent him to learn skating. When Ying Ruyong grew up, Ying Da sent him to play ice hockey at a high cost.

others say that the palms of the hands are full of meat, but here in Ying Da, they are not.

from 1998 to 27, almost 1 years have passed.

One is Batu, who grew up in a reorganized family, and the other is Ying Ruyong, who grew up in a perfect family. Their growth gap has gradually widened.

In April p>27, Ying Ruyong's Tiger Team won the World Ice Hockey Championship of the same age.

At the age of 9, Ying Ruyong scored a key goal in the final and became the MVP of that competition.

Ying Ruyong's excellent ice hockey skills have made people see our hope in ice hockey.

His brother Batu, on the other hand, is still living in a strange circle of excessive consumption by the media. As a result of inheriting Ying Da's genes, Batu began to gain weight in adolescence.

unscrupulous media pay excessive attention to Batu's image, which makes people's impression of Batu stay in the aura of Star II.

Song Dandan's doting and over-caring, and her biological father's ruthless disregard.

After growing up, Batu appeared in several TV series, but because of his ordinary and thin image, he was always in a tepid state, and even was called a "mediocre person".

Ying Ruyong is older than Batu small 8. Under the dedicated education of Ying Da, she won the attention of the masses at an early age with her amazing talent.

Compared with his brother's unsatisfactory growth environment, Ying Ruyong received Ying Da's attention as soon as he was born. During his growth, his biological parents accompanied him and gave him a good environment and resources.

For example, the equipment of ice hockey, even the daily exercise expenses of ice hockey, are not small expenses in China, where ice hockey is not the main sport.

Over the years, Ying Da not only supported Ying Ruyong financially, but also personally served as his coach and accompanied him to practice.

At any time, Ying Ruyong is presented to others as a sunny and confident big boy; And Batu, of course, also likes to laugh like Ying Da.

However, it is a kind of vicissitudes and sensibilities beyond peers.

With regard to the younger son Ying Ruyong, Ying Da also started the form of "praising" in front of the media, but he was indifferent to the present situation of his eldest son Batu.

In 27, when Song Dandan disclosed the truth about his divorce from her ex-husband Ying Da in his new autobiography, Ying Da, who became angry from embarrassment, called him "exhibitionist" and "mentally ill".

After about five years, in 211, Song Dandan denounced Ying Da as an incompetent father in Weibo, working as a nanny, a chef and a coach for Ying Ruyong, but for 14 years, he was a stranger to Batu.

Weibo, Song Dandan, has aroused the attention and discussion of netizens.

Some people support Ying Da's approach, saying that since everyone has their own families, they should not disturb each other. It is also said that although divorced, there are no less obligations and obligations about children.

From Song Dandan's self-report, Batu was very eager to see Ying Da when he was a child, and he also hoped that Ying Da could play with him.

However, Ying Da, as his biological father, not only failed to meet Batu's wishes, but also refused to give Batu his contact information.

What a cruel thing it was for Batu, who was a child at that time!

If the biological father was absent during his growth, it would be difficult for the stepfather to compensate for the scar in the young Batu's heart even if he took his place later. Song Dandan's excessive compensation and attention also make it difficult for Batu to develop himself and truly live himself.

Ying Ruyong is luckier than Batu. He is accompanied by his biological parents, has a healthy and sound family environment and superior resources. From the day he was born, he will definitely win at the starting line.

So in contrast, Batu became an innocent "victim" of the failed marriage between Ying Da and Song Dandan.

Therefore, there is no child who doesn't expect his father to love his mother's love, and there is no child who doesn't expect his parents to accompany him. Even if he is divorced, he should not use divorce as an excuse not to perform his obligations and obligations to his children.

It can be seen that the relationship between parents and the family atmosphere deeply affects the future development of children.