For example, in high school, there are two cars in our school, one is an air-conditioned car with four yuan, and the other is an ordinary car with two and a half yuan. Many people get on the bus first. I won't. I must be waiting for the local train. Some people will say that time is also a cost, and you are wasting time. I think this is a habit. If I just let myself do air conditioning, I always feel distressed. Since the destination is the same, why choose the expensive one?
When I grow up and have a job, everyone around me wants to buy some clothes and shoes. It's best to change something new every season. Even the moonlight clan appeared, yes, we do have the ability to make money, the right to choose freely, and some regrets that we didn't have when we were children.
People around you are urging you to be better to yourself. You have no burden and no money. Take care of yourself. I smiled helplessly. It's not that I don't want to spend money, but that my habit has always been to live moderately. I can't feel the joy of buying a small jar of thousands of lotions. I can't feel the pride of buying luxury bags. I grew up in an environment where I had enough clothes to wear and skin care to buy a beautiful jade.
I can't fit into your world, and you don't want to change me. My parents will get old one day. I can't wait until they get sick and hospitalized, and they all have to worry about medical expenses. Ada sent a message to Weibo after her father's death, saying that she had no regrets about her father and that she had enough financial ability to give him the best treatment. I can't give him the best treatment, at least I can take good care of them when they need it.
I think the most important thing is after illness, especially after a serious illness. I am a post-89 generation, and I am just 30 years old this year. When I was 27 years old, I remember that it was one night when my brother suddenly called. My mother had a little car accident. She's fine. However, it was found that both lungs had shadows during physical examination (it was later learned that both lungs were rare in early cancer), so it was suggested to review them. Pack your things and ask for leave to go home immediately.
Start a long examination career: the first step is ordinary CT, which can't be detected, the second step is enhanced CT, which can't be detected, and the third step is PET CT(7000 and not reimbursed by medical insurance), which can detect benign inflammation, so don't get excited. In order to prevent misdiagnosis, I took a film and hung up the expert number (this expert's diagnosis is very important, hanging antibiotics, rechecking, and surgery when inflammation disappears, because early lung cancer and inflammation are a symptom). The fourth step, hanging water for two weeks, continue to review, and it has not become smaller. The fifth step is normal scanning, and the result is possible. Suggest surgery. The sixth step is to go to Tianjin to see a Chinese medicine expert (this is also more important, and this expert made our door determined to have an operation). Chinese medicine experts directly diagnose the pulse as cancer and require surgery.
The above inspection will be over in about one and a half months. During the period, I went to Shanghai five times, and every time I watched the film, I hung the number of the special needs expert. Every filming, travel and air tickets cost about 20 thousand.
On the tenth day after the Spring Festival, prepare for the operation, because the preliminary examination is in place, and after the routine examination before the operation, the operation (beds in large hospitals have to line up, and hospitalization will be arranged after all major examinations). I took my mother to Shanghai for surgery alone, without other family members. Before the operation, arrange the postoperative nursing staff. Someone will come from home on the day of the operation, and I will arrange a hotel. The operation was quick, about four hours, and then severe for 24 hours. I was hospitalized for one *** 10 day. My mother spent 50,000 yuan on the operation because of her good health and less medication, and the rest was 10,000 yuan.
My family has multiple lungs. This time, we can only do one lesion of one lung, which is the biggest lesion. Biopsy after operation is malignant. We will continue the genetic test and check 2400. The result is mutation, and we can treat it in a targeted way. The cost is 6000 yuan a month. This is really too expensive. For details, please refer to Dying for Survival. ). I coughed after the operation, so I went to Tianjin to see a Chinese doctor with the operation data. I have been prescribed Chinese medicine for a month (my cough has improved after eating for a day, and my Chinese medicine is really amazing) 3000 yuan.
The whole treatment cost is about 6.5438+million, and the medical insurance reimbursement is 6.5438+0.7 million. The rest are all at their own expense. Moreover, my family has many lungs, only one was treated, and the rest, I chose conservative treatment instead of following the doctor's quality plan.
Taking targeted drugs normally after operation, plus liver-protecting drugs and Ganoderma lucidum, costs 1.5 million yuan a year. Review twice, no reimbursement. Thank God, my mother is still healthy. Maybe the money is nothing to some people, and I believe most people should spend a lot of money. I have thanked myself for my efforts countless times. Because of my efforts, at least I have the money to treat my mother. I won't be afraid if the doctor says so many complicated terms. Even I can hire a nurse, and I won't be wronged during the operation. But I also urge myself to make progress. If I have more money, can I afford real medicine?
The most regrettable thing in life is that children have to support their loved ones, so everyone needs to save money, for themselves and for their families.
I am a female, born after 70, a teacher's family background, and I have no worries about food and clothing since I was a child.
I have a stable job with a moderate income.
My husband and I are still very suitable, and our personal situation is basically the same.
We have never suffered anything since childhood, and we have been spending money lavishly.
Before they got married, their salary was basically moonlight.
Marriage before 2000 was a naked marriage, and after marriage, I lived in a flat.
After all, when you get married, you always have to buy some furniture and appliances, plus human relations.
After marriage, we are basically moonlight clan.
Being pregnant was an accident.
I'm pregnant now, and I'm not young.
When you come, you will be safe, and you will start making prenatal preparations.
Baby clothes, cribs, etc. Suddenly, I found that there were a lot of maternal and child supplies to prepare.
Plus you are pregnant, basic nutrition must be guaranteed!
So I began to make ends meet!
We have prepared a little for the production cost.
Not much. Our salary cards add up to more than 3000 yuan.
Considering that I am tall and my pelvis is in good condition, the hospitalization fee for natural delivery is enough!
Because as I said, that was 2000 years ago!
What a pity! People are not as good as days!
Less than 35 weeks pregnant, prenatal examination found abnormal.
Without saying anything, he was dragged into the operating room by the doctor and had an emergency caesarean section.
I had a little trouble with my child after delivery, and I was hospitalized for more than ten days before I was discharged.
Husband goes to check out, dumbfounded! The hospitalization fee is more than 6000 yuan!
The gap is3,000 yuan!
Before 2000, it was a lot of money. At that time, when you got married and had children, the red envelope was still 50 100 yuan.
Neither parent can ask for money.
Not many friends can borrow!
Finally, my husband can only go to the bank for a loan of 3000 yuan, or find someone to open the back door.
How did you spend this month?
I personally realized what is lack of money and what is care.
Since then, my husband and I have made up our minds to save money!
Life is a lifetime, who knows what will happen?
Money is not everything, but you can't do anything without money!
It's true that you have a gift!
I am a rose. A female doctor Wen Qing.
I went home happily with my schoolbag on my back. My parents are at work and not at home. When I got home, the first thing I did was to open the refrigerator and see what was delicious.
Only some lettuce and some eggs were found, and there was no meat at all. I didn't know why at that time, and I felt very sad. It occurred to me that I really shouldn't spend so much money outside. Since then, I intend to save some money.
There is no quiet day, but someone is carrying a heavy load for you.
1. When I was a child, I saw a nice notebook or stationery, but I always struggled to compare the price difference between them. Often succumb to low prices. At that time, I thought, when I grow up, I must save more money and buy what I like.
2. When I was in high school and college, every time my parents called, they would say not to spend money indiscriminately, saying that it was not easy to make money. I will be particularly wronged in my heart. I have always been frugal and don't want to spend money indiscriminately. At that time, I just thought I had to save money.
I bought a train ticket when I was studying in the summer vacation. In order to save some fares, I have never bought myself a berth ticket, only a hard seat or even a standing ticket at a time. At that time, I thought I must save money.
Although there is not much income now, there are few deposits. But I will still try to save money. This is a heartfelt sense of security.
Have a baby.
People around me say that it only takes a few thousand dollars to have a baby. I used to think so. Not exactly. From pregnancy to birth to now, it cost about 30 thousand. Especially in these two months, I fell ill and spent three days in emergency, outpatient and hospital. The money flowed away like running water. I met a young couple when I was in hospital. The baby was born prematurely and spent hundreds of thousands. Later, the general hospital of the provincial capital also suspected that I had cancer. At that time, before the results came out, I asked my husband, what should I do if I got cancer? He said he would cure the pot and sell iron. It is these recent experiences that make me realize that I should save money and save money. If nothing else, I hope that when my family and myself are sick, they will not be unable to take out a penny.
May my family be safe and healthy, and may everyone be safe and healthy.
Some people, such as my mother, are hardworking and don't spend money lavishly.
Some people save money because they are poor, such as me.
Diligent people thrive.
I was born in an ordinary family, but my life is below average, because my mother is a thrifty housekeeper.
Mom is always reluctant to spend money, and the days are tight. What is good always comes first to the old people and children.
It is no exaggeration to say that 90% of the people in the village have borrowed money from my family, and my family is basically responsive. But my family has never borrowed a penny from the villagers.
If you give him a candy every day, one day you don't, he will hate you; If you slap him every day and stop hitting him one day, he will be grateful to you. This is human nature, so the villagers take my family's help for granted.
People there pay more attention to the enjoyment of life. People like my mother are "different", and there are always people in the village who speak ill of them behind their backs. The aggrieved person bought a new color TV at home, and others didn't want it; The newly bought clothes are also said to have been worn by others. ......
When I was a child, I didn't understand my mother and asked her why she had to live so frugally and was looked down upon by others. My mother said: it is not easy for my father to work outside to make money. Others laugh at your lack of money, so let her laugh. Life is for yourself. I don't owe anyone a penny, and my waist is straighter than anyone else.
Now that I have bought a new house at home, my brother has married a sister-in-law who is excellent in all aspects and has no foreign debts.
I think it is better to work hard on my own in my parents' generation.
I save money because I am poor.
Influenced by my mother, I like to save private money (given by relatives and left by my family) since I was a child. Adults in the village always borrow money from me through their parents when they have no money.
My brother and I have advised my parents not to go to work many times, but they said not to be used by others and try not to burden their children.
I feel sorry for my parents, who have been thinking about their children all their lives and have not enjoyed life well.
I want to earn a lot of money to be filial to them, and I don't want them to work so hard anymore.
The ideal is beautiful, but the reality is cruel. They cared for me and helped me with my children for two years. I bought a house and they took out their savings to help me. Sometimes I really hate being worthless and making my parents worry so much.
I am particularly reluctant to spend money on myself, but I am very generous in spending money on my parents, and I am very happy even if I am called "defeated" by adults.
My friend said that women should be kind to themselves and that I was stupid! In fact, occasionally I feel sorry for myself and feel sad.
When I am sad, I will think of my family and think that they love me so much. I should be the happiest person in the world.
My motivation for making money is to make my family live a relaxed life.
In the past two years, I have worked hard to make money. I used to have some savings, and there was nothing important at home. Children are small, and the pressure is not great. I want to work, too, if I want to, but I can't. I never thought about how much money I would make, nor did I think about buying a house. Last year, my husband and friends messed up the truck, losing hundreds of thousands, and the savings at home were still in arrears. In addition, all my friends who used to hang out with me have bought houses and cars, and the more career we have. Every summer vacation, friends and relatives travel around with their children, but I can only stay at home, and traveling costs a lot of money. In addition, the children are older and the boys are learning to make up lessons. In the future, it will be difficult for boys to get a wife without a house or a car. Now I know that the pressure is great, so I want to save as much as possible by buying clothes and cosmetics.
I was born in an official family, and I grew up without food and clothing. Business after marriage has never been poor. A little petty bourgeoisie and a very good attitude. Until I met my husband's uncle and cousin, and they cheated me out of money. Eating enough in a foreign land is a problem. Hunger and weakness is a luxury. I ate meat without meat. After seeing through their ugly faces, my son bought a house, but I was short of money at home. I felt guilty. Poverty made me taste the cold world, realized the importance of money, and felt how beautiful the rich life was before. From then on, I made up my mind to be frugal, save money and give myself a sense of security. I can't let someone who makes me stumble and see jokes succeed!
I want to buy a house. The happiness I want is a family, safe, healthy and happy. The premise is to have a warm home, children grow up day by day, and occasionally sigh how time flies. The daughter is 6 years old and the son is 3 years old. I feel like a failure. I planned it before I got married. I took care of my mother-in-law when the child was born. I open a shop and my husband goes to work. I could have saved thousands of dollars a month, but my mother-in-law wouldn't help me. My daughter began to take care of herself two months ago. I was a little depressed after giving birth, so I have been in poor health. Later, I got pregnant with a second child, closed the store and became a full-time mother. Husband makes money alone and spends it on four people, which is also very stressful. Our daughter is studying, and we have to rent a house, so we can't save any money all year round.
My biggest wish at present is to save money and buy a house. People are realistic, the rented house and the neighbors who actually live are great, and the straight row in the back is facing the window of our room. By the way, she said I love where my home is. How about the one next door? When we met, it seemed that I felt very inferior.
The reality is cruel. I just want to earn more money while studying in Bao Xiao.