The movie "Nothing" made many people burst into tears.

The film tells the story of four Tsinghua students, Wu Linglan, Shen Guangyao, Zhang, who walked all the way in different time and space. There is a scholar's spirit, feelings of home and country, emotional entanglements and memories. The most exciting thing is the love story with Wang.

In 1960s, Chen Peng studied in Tsinghua University. When he was assigned for graduation, he refused the school's original assignment proposal on the grounds that someone had to take care of him. As an orphan, how can he be taken care of by his relatives? This man is his former middle school classmate Wang.

Later, Wang and Li Xiang wrote a letter criticizing his mistress, but Li Xiang didn't have the courage to stand up and admit that he was involved, because he didn't want to lose the chance of sideline business. In the end, all the spearheads were directed at Wang, which led to great criticism, abuse and group beatings, and almost killed him.

Those who were assigned to work seemed to have telepathy and predicted that Wang would have an accident during the experiment. He tossed and turned all the way, ran and grabbed the bus by tractor, and finally arrived at the scene. The interrogators have dispersed and the venue is a mess. The king was covered in blood and barely breathed. I cried and dug a grave. It rained heavily. When Wang woke up, both of them cried with joy. In order to save the surviving king, they also built a grave and wrote "The Tomb of the King". So he took the almost disfigured king back to his distant hometown to recuperate.

After this incident, Wang was greatly stimulated. She often dreamed that she was falling and avoiding Chen Peng. Dodson TB a hug her, "you don't be afraid, I am the one who gives you the bottom, I will fall with you. No matter how deep it falls, I will hold it for you below. What I am most afraid of is that when I fall, you push me away and don't let me help you. "

At this stage of the film, there was a gentle sob around. "I am the one who gives you the bottom", this sentence is full of affection and reassuring. I feel that the sky is falling, thunder and lightning, and I don't need to be afraid anymore.

Chen Peng returned to work and accepted the arrangement of conducting nuclear physics experiments in the far northwest. Wang survived the goods and love sent. Later, alone with a military kettle, she set foot on the dusty northwest to find Chen Peng. She said, "When I was desperate, it was your love that sustained me. Now I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I'm coming for you. "

It is said that it is because of these touching lines that Zhang Ziyi accepted the script without hesitation.

With my support, even if someone betrays you, I will rush to your side for the first time to comfort you.

With my support, even if the door of life is closed, I will try to open a window for you.

With my support, even if the whole world is against you, I will always be your loyal partner.

02 can't hold the bottom, please don't drag it down.

However, the story of Wang's high school class teacher Xu Bochang and his wife in the film makes people cry.

Liu Shufen provided for Xu Bochang to finish college, and Xu Bochang had to dissolve his marriage. Liu Shufen went to another unit with a kitchen knife. Xu Bo often chooses to get married and escape. Having been married for many years, sleeping in their own beds and using their own cups and bowls are completely different from each other. Liu Shufen dropped Xu Bochang's cup, and Xu Bochang didn't use her cup, preferring to drink water from his own bowl; She dropped Xu Bochang's bowl, and Xu Bochang didn't use her bowl, preferring to eat a box lunch. She growled. Outsiders only know that she has a bad temper and often beats and scolds her husband, but they don't know that he is also hitting her, using an indifferent attitude. Until the end, after criticizing the queen, she was in a trance and met her husband head-on, but her husband's face turned from sunny to cloudy in an instant, so she turned a blind eye and walked away sideways. Liu Shufen fell like a zombie and jumped into the well of the quadrangle.

You can't simply judge who is right or wrong in this relationship. Liu Shufen thought that Xu Bo often said that they would live a lifetime, while Xu Bo often said that it has changed now. Liu Shufen thought it could not be changed, and Xu Bochang was furious: Other things can be changed, so why can't feelings be changed? Many people think that Liu Shufen has no financial ability, because Xu Bo often works as a teacher and has 30 kilograms of food stamps. Liu Shufen was heartbroken. "I am for your 30 Jin food stamps?" In fact, since Liu Shufen can help Xu Bochang finish college, firstly, he keeps his word, and secondly, he has financial ability. Her commitment to Xu Bochang is serious and her feelings are consistent. However, Xu Bochang is not the case. Breach of contract has existed since ancient times. Emotional fickleness is understandable. However, compared with Chen Pengzhi to Wang, Xu Bochang is really heartless.

When Xu Bochang was unable to go to college because of economic poverty, it was the young girl Liu Shufen who worked in a textile factory to earn money for his education. She is the only provider.

When Xu Bo is always addicted to his work, it is Liu Shufen who washes clothes, cooks and takes care of his life. It was she who gave him support.

When Xu and Liu met, and when Xu promised to be together for a lifetime, there is no way to know. However, if Xu was ruthless at that time, why did he make a solemn emotional commitment? If you accept each other's help, does it also mean that your's feelings have reached a certain level? Xu Bo can always be honest with his heart, live a life without conscience, and is really kind. He should support her.

One is to keep your promise and be together. You can appreciate each other's efforts, find each other's advantages, cultivate feelings and live a good life. Leave some enthusiasm for neighbors, students and other outsiders to your family.

The other is Xu Bochang's so-called feelings have changed. What should I do? People are rational and emotional. If Xu Bo often thinks that he has no feelings for each other and doesn't want to live together, then don't agree to get married. Try every means to understand each other's ideological work through leaders, colleagues and friends. Let the other party not hang themselves in this tree. Return the funds received in that year, and appropriately increase economic compensation.

Can't hold the bottom, at least don't drag it down!

What if no one helps themselves? On your own!

Like Liu Shufen, in fact, he has a certain economic ability, and he is hardworking and capable. Even without Xu Bochang, he can actually support himself.

Support each other, not drag each other down.

A while ago, a couple in Xiaoshan, Zhejiang got angry because they got married and bought a house. The girl insisted that the man's family buy a house of 4 million yuan in full. The boy said that he didn't want to eat all his parents' savings, and proposed that he should pay down the house, repay the loan after marriage, the real estate license and the girl's name. The two men stood firmly in their respective positions and were deadlocked. There are heated discussions on the Internet, including judicial interpretation of marriage law, local customs, differences between men and women, and the reality of love and marriage.

What I feel is that girls want all boys to come to the bottom, because "I don't want to repay the loan, and my life pressure is great". I didn't expect the man's family to buy a house in full, and the life pressure is not great.

In marriage and family life, this phenomenon of wanting others to help others seems to be everywhere. For example, married boys want to buy a house and a car. Even if boys have difficulties and girls have the ability to share them, they choose to turn a blind eye. The reason is that it is natural for men to buy a house and a car. For example, it is clear that the child is born by husband and wife, and the wife is busy with work, housework and childcare. Husbands either stand by or participate in it, which is also called "helping you with your children" and "helping you with housework"; Or children reach out to their parents for money, or spouses always make various demands on the other half on the grounds that "don't your parents make money for me?" "You are my husband/wife, so what should you do?" ……

I just want others to help me. I never think I should help each other, which eventually dragged me down and dragged me down. This is the greatest selfishness in human nature.

Do you have anyone to support you in love, marriage and family life?

Yes, you are very lucky.

No, I took it myself.

Do you support your beloved ta?

Yes, it's your duty. Happiness can never depend on one-way output.

No, it's your responsibility. You should take the initiative to bear your share of the burden.

It is said that the years are quiet because someone is carrying a heavy load.

They said you should support me, but in fact I should support you.

? If you can't help me, I will help myself.

? If I can't help you, at least let me not drag you down.

? May we all support each other in our feelings and not drag each other down.