In daily life, although we have repeatedly mentioned the issue of equality between men and women, many girls still tend to look at this issue in a double-standard way. At the same time, they also think that it is normal for boys to buy a house and a car, and they only need to provide people. If a girl really wants equality between men and women, it is normal for boys and girls to pay off their mortgage and car loans together.

First, you should be clear about what is equality between men and women.

I don't know when it started. Some girls are always proud of getting something for nothing, and they also think that it is natural for boys to provide all the material foundation for themselves. For boys, when boys and girls fall in love, girls will put forward various harsh conditions for boys, and at the same time think that they don't need to provide any value to boys, or even only need to provide one person. This in itself is not a question of equality between men and women, and such behavior is unfair.

Second, it is normal for boys and girls to repay their mortgage and car loan together.

In modern society, everyone's life is under great pressure. If a girl wants to expect a boy to get something for nothing, no boy is willing to do such a thing for her unless she has very good conditions. In other words, most people in this society are just ordinary people, and girls don't have to make some meaningless fantasies all day.

Third, you can seriously communicate this problem with your boyfriend.

I don't know if you two are married. If you are not married, you can ask your boyfriend this question. In most cases, if a girl doesn't want to share joys and sorrows with a boy at all, I don't think it is necessary for a boy to marry such a girl. Because the man the boy is looking for is not his other half, but a grandfather, and no one is waiting on him.