If my brother and sister give him a large loan and refuse to pay attention to me, we can communicate more. Borrowing money was rejected by relatives, indicating that relatives did not want to borrow it. At this time, if they want to take it back, they can reduce the amount of money borrowed. Maybe the relative is in financial difficulties, or he really doesn't have that much money at hand, so she doesn't want to lend you money now, and then bring some gifts to his house to communicate with yours.