At the end of 2019, I had not yet married my husband, but we had met our parents. One day, my husband told me that his mother would pay a down payment to buy us a house and treat it as a wedding house. But they only paid the down payment, and we needed to pay the monthly payments. I thought it must be in my and my husband’s name, so I readily agreed without much thought. But things took a turn for the worse. When we were discussing marriage and receiving the marriage certificate, I discovered that my mother-in-law had done something wrong. Only my father-in-law’s name was written on the real estate certificate. . . And we don’t even know when we bought the house! I was very angry and complained to my husband, saying that I was unwilling to repay the mortgage. Why should I provide a house for your parents? But my husband said that my mother-in-law has said that this house will definitely be given to us in the future (my husband also has an older brother with cerebral palsy who will stay at home and have more money to spend in the future). We are all a family, so don’t worry so much. The monthly payment will not cost you anything. money, use my salary. I was very naive and stupid at that time, and I was easily convinced. Only later did I realize that you use your salary to pay the monthly payments to your parents, and my salary is used to support the family. It’s wonderful~~ The whole family doesn’t regard me as a family member, so they unite to guard against me, awesome!

Therefore, I have never had a good impression of my husband's family. Although they are usually pretty good to me, especially after my daughter was born, they also loved my daughter very much. But I can’t get over this hurdle. My mother-in-law is also a very strong person. For example, regarding my daughter’s previous cold, she said that no matter what her child’s illness was, she would ask the doctor in her hometown to prescribe a medicine that would be cured once she took it. (The doctor in my hometown prescribes a large dose of medicine, which is too effective for children and has serious side effects). My husband and I didn't agree, so we went to my husband's sister and said that I was scorning her and that I was really drunk. I won’t write anymore, I’m so angry. ?