Bridal gifts can reflect the importance and attitude of the man's family to you. As the old saying goes, three books and six engagements are also betrothal gifts. In other words, this kind of thing has existed since ancient times. You have a bride price, I have a dowry, and you don't suffer. Of course, as for how much to give, it depends on how your two families negotiate. Don't have the idea of taking advantage of anyone, and don't make noise because of the bride price. If the man's family doesn't have much money, but treats all the money as a bride price, it can show that the man's family values you very much.
There is such a thing around me. Jun and his girlfriend are college classmates, and they have established a love relationship since their sophomore year. A jun decided to marry his girlfriend one year after graduating from college. Both parents agreed, but the two families had a big fight at the bride price. At first, it was the woman's parents who demanded100000 bride price. A Jun's parents are ordinary primary school teachers, and there is a sister at home who goes to college. For them,100000 yuan is not a small sum. After much discussion, I finally decided to go through the motions for my friends and relatives. In fact, I only paid 50 thousand bride price, and the extra 50 thousand was returned to Ajun's family after marriage. Things seem to be solved perfectly, not only taking care of the face of the woman's parents, but also not making the man's parents too embarrassed. Finally, I pieced together a passbook of100000 and gave it to my daughter-in-law before marriage.
Even if the boyfriend has money, it's someone else's money, not yours. How do people get out of money? This is something that people can work hard, not something you can understand. Did you get married because of love or money? I think you must ask yourself first and think twice before making a decision. I believe this is not a big deal for your boyfriend, but if your boyfriend breaks up with you because of this, it's not what you want!
Whether he is rich or not, the most important thing is sincerity. If he is sincere and capable, he will think it is worth 65438+ ten thousand yuan. Of course, the premise is ability, but it also depends on what your custom is. 654.38+ million is not too much if it is reasonable.