First of all, we should make it clear that we should not be rude at ordinary times. After all, you should be friendly and modest when you get along with people. However, when you meet someone who intentionally or unintentionally wants to provoke you, who takes pleasure in bullying you with words, or who licks your face without knowing it, please don't mention it. Because this kind of person won't get off the bus if you give him steps, he will only sneer at your steps and continue to stand on the stage.
In this case, I usually hold my ground first, pretend to maintain face first, and then guess the other party's intentions. According to my observation, most of these people are for these points: 1 By comparing with you, show his cow X; 2, just don't deal with you, see you unhappy; 3, who is not the point, just want to install X.
After finding out each other's intentions, if you are sure to fight back, the next step is to find the weakest place of the other party, the kind that can be killed. Don't be deceived by each other's grandiose words and expressions. You should know that there must be something fishy behind the boasting, and find out the hidden shortcomings of the other party.
For example, during the Chinese New Year, there are always some aunts who visit relatives and neighbors. If they catch you, they will ask, "Where do you work?" "How much is it a month?" "What are the target families doing?" "Did you buy a house?" And so on. Don't be upset at this time, but give the other party a chance to mock you for being impetuous and unstable. Talk to her and ask questions in a more enthusiastic and gossipy way than her. The purpose is not to answer her unkind questions, but to state what she is proud of.
"Your son so much, the unit is good, you also bought a house. Aunt, your family is so powerful that you must be full. I really don't know which girl is so blessed! Huh? A loan? Well, it's stressful. I envy your son. You're retired, and you're still helping to pay the mortgage. Mom, look at Aunt X. She has retired and worked hard for her son. It's not like you. You play mahjong every day and go out once in a while ... "and so on.
After all, it is not good for elders to go back directly, so the following circuitous strategies are adopted. But if you are a colleague, welcome. Hit the nail on the head is the most effective.