Dear young female friends, from a man's point of view. First of all, did you gather a lot of fate to find each other? Second, you must have many experiences and wonderful memories when you live together. Third, as you said, you are worried about him, you care about him, and you still like him. Are all the above facts?

Now let me give you an analysis of what happened and think at the worst:

Number one: Your husband is really involved with another woman. Do you think he betrayed you? Do you think your husband doesn't love you anymore? Don't worry, I've seen this situation many times. As long as a man is willing to lie to you, it shows that he cares about you and is afraid that you will get hurt. As for why men have sex with other women, there are many factors involved. On the one hand, there are too many factors that tempt society. On the other hand, think about yourself. Didn't you meet your husband's needs in any way?

The second point: make a simple interpretation of some things you do. You are basically a full-time wife. You have no social life, no circle of life and no job to do, so you are afraid of losing your husband because of his infidelity, and you are afraid of losing a fairly good life at present. So you started calling all the time, hoping to prove that your husband still won't leave you, or even love you. The final result is that you are worried that he will leave you.

Number three: I'll tell you what you want to do. Don't play cards in the future, don't do some recreation and waste time. A began to cultivate what he likes, such as reading, doing yoga, cultivating some of his own artistic cells, singing and dancing, playing musical instruments and so on. B Here, I want to emphasize that reading is the key point, and find your favorite books to explore further. C Interpersonal communication: From today on, you should stop calling to care about your husband (men should take the initiative to call to care about you), and you should stop asking your husband what happens every day. Start your relationships, meet people with higher social status than you, deal with them, have tea and chat with them (you have plenty of time). The third point; Make your own economy independent. There are many investment channels now, such as stocks, futures, gold, foreign exchange, spot and physical stores. Online Taobao shop. Start to pay attention to this information, understand this knowledge, and do these things in a down-to-earth manner. I can guarantee that there will be many excellent men asking to cheat with you within two years! At that time, your man wanted to keep you and please you in various ways. He wanted to keep you.