Because you go with the flow, those who are close to the ink are black, do not make progress, do not pay money, and die for face! I dare not ask questions, because I am afraid of my family, listen to my relatives, have no opinion, and dare not make a decision alone. Your concept is very traditional, you just want to be as stable as your parents, get married and have children, and then go the same way as your parents. Because you are naturally fragile and slow-witted, you just want to do your work step by step. Because you complain that you have never met an opportunity or a mistake! When the opportunity came to you, you didn't seize it. So as always, it has always been like this.
You chickened out, you dare not do anything! Don't think you have any special skills, you have to use brute force! You are just like your parents, a vicious circle! So, you will do nothing in your life. Many people want to seize the opportunity, but when they want to do something, they often find many reasons to put themselves in contradiction! Constantly wasting time, wasting time.
For example:
No one is born with the ability if you don't give yourself a chance to exercise! As soon as I graduate, I am an elite in society! Success as soon as you start a business! When others study hard, accumulate hard and improve themselves, you are bored because you do little every day. After learning something, I feel boring. After reading a few pages, I don't want to read it, telling myself and others that I am not interested in learning. Then I spent most of my life doing nothing and complaining that God didn't give me a chance. Ability is hard to come by. If you don't work hard to have the ability, a genius will become a fool. But as long as you work hard, you can become an elite no matter how stupid you are.
Why do you always fail? Why does success never care for you? The reason is that besides external conditions such as opportunities and environment, the most important key link has been neglected by you, and that is your own ability.
Everyone's time is the same, no one has a little more than us, a lot of time and a lot of waste! Others are full, you are watching TV, others are studying hard, and you are playing games to entertain yourself. In short, time means feeling a lot, and you are getting bored. When others make money, they envy others, don't learn from others, seize the time to create value, and be ignorant all day.
Time is managed, and the accelerating life is dragging us into the whirlpool of trivial matters. We not only lost the direction of progress, but also forgot what is the most important thing in our hearts. In short, only by managing your own time can you manage your own future.
Play when you are in a good mood, drink at home when you are in a bad mood, go shopping when you are in a good mood, play games when you are in a bad mood, enjoy when you are in a good mood, and go to bed when you are in a bad mood. Good mood is the same, but I just don't do business.
Think more when you are in a good mood, because at this time your mind is clearer and you know what you want to do. A good mood is more important than anything else.
It's not that there is no money, but that there is no idea of making money. How many years have you worked, and you have no money? Yes, but it has been spent. Spend it on things that have no return on investment. Spending on eating, drinking, and having fun or saving money in the bank (saving money in the bank is dead money) has depreciated, the value has not been maximized, and money cannot make ends meet. Being a moonlight clan every month, cycle after cycle, without foresight.
Recommended book: "Piglets Going Out of the Bank: Tips for Personal Financial Investment"
Savings Bank is a popular book about family and personal financial management. Different from the current investment and financial management books full of technical terms, this book is colorful in the form of storytelling. Through the trip of a boy who is good at money to visit the twelve disciples of the God of Wealth, this paper introduces twelve investment varieties one by one, such as deposits, bonds, stocks, fund trusts, insurance, real estate, futures options, foreign exchange, precious metals, collectibles, physical investment and health, and respectively suggests that their different "financial" investments and financial management are not complicated, and the key lies in restraint.
Think about it, maybe, but don't do it. I am so unwilling! I don't want to work all day, so let's start tomorrow! On second thought, forget it, it's not easy to earn this money! No, no, I decided not to give up the opportunity! Oh, it's getting dark, let's talk about it tomorrow! Then it happened again the next day, because I kept thinking and thinking, and finally I couldn't decide. Hesitant, delayed a lot of time, still nothing. This life is not without opportunities, in fact, there are many potential opportunities and opportunities, but I just didn't fight for and grasp them! Too many excuses, too many reasons!
When people are poor, they should be less at home and more outside. If you have money, stay at home more and stay outside less. This is the art of living.
It is not our fault to be young, and there is no need to be afraid of being born in poverty. Knowing how to cultivate yourself, what are valuables, what to invest in and where to store them is the key to the whole process.
Spend more time with people who have more dreams, more ideas and work harder than themselves. The biggest expenditure is to use income to complete your dreams, fly your wings and dream boldly, so that life can experience a different journey.
There is no way to be a man, but to fight.
Every time I visit my relatives, I ask if I have a girlfriend. When will I bring it back? When shall I get married? Don't ask if you have a house and car like your brother, but also ask if you want one in the city. Really helpless, married, not married, with a house and a car, where to work? Where to go to school? Where is the job? So it's annoying to hear this every year, only when I'm young. Avoid them gossiping)