Chatting with others is to appreciate and learn from each other, not to preach eloquently.
Choose the right time and place to talk about the right content, and of course choose the right object. Not everyone is the object of your good communication. People in groups find someone who can resonate with your ideas.
If you just want to get on well with those girls, I suggest you read more fashion magazines. Topics that every girl does not exclude are: beauty, weight loss, hairstyle, clothing, food and love.
Personally, I despise boys who play online games, which is very naive. I never expect to chat with such people.
5. Entertainment activities enhance connotation temperament? If watching American TV plays is entertainment, because the American way of thinking can teach you how to communicate.
I hope I can help you.