I don't think it's too much to watch it alone. After all, it's all for the future. The house is a mountain, and the crushed people can't breathe. Many marriages have broken up because houses have not been settled. It is not shameful for parents to have this ability. Some people may think that their parents have raised themselves so much, and now that they are working, it is not good to get married and buy a house, but they don't have the ability. Do you want to force yourself to death? Of course, this kind of trouble always exists. Basically, it is a family with two general conditions, and children are worried when they talk about marriage. The woman wants the man to have a house (it is best not to borrow money, because it is hard enough to be a house slave) and let the young couple earn their own money to raise their children. I guess it's almost the same. The man estimates that some people like the woman to have a house, so that the pressure on her son will be less. But the reality is so cruel. If you are not very old now; If you love your boyfriend very much; If your boyfriend's ability is good and his salary is high ... do you want to wait for him for several years (≦4 years-because it has been more than 4 years, it is estimated that the risk of having children after the woman is a little older, or the children may not be very good, and so on. She has nothing to do without a partner), and then you get married. This advantage is in line with your father's idea of letting the man buy a house and your boyfriend's desire to rely on himself. Of course, these are just a small suggestion. You must discuss the details with that person. I think many people have encountered this incident. In fact, it is really difficult to solve it, and you may not get a satisfactory answer. But after crossing the bridge, there will always be a solution. I hope you will have a happy result.