First, adjust the mentality and face it calmly.
If you want to save your boyfriend who insists on breaking up, you need to adjust your mentality. If the mentality is not good enough when saving, it will be difficult to stick to it, because whatever you do at this time will be denied by the other party, so if you want to save your boyfriend, you must have an optimistic attitude.
At the same time, you need to calmly face the fact that you have broken up, do a good job of freezing, and don't let the other party notice your high requirements. The calmer you are after breaking up, the more you will make your boyfriend doubt whether he made the right decision to leave you, and then he will be a little curious about you and want to know what happened to you after breaking up.
Second, give both sides a cooling-off period.
If you want to save a disappointed lover, you must first try to balance your mind, give yourself a period of time to recover the ability to think rationally and deal with emotions, and reflect on how to correct your shortcomings and what shortcomings you have in your past feelings. At the same time, you can also give the disappointed partner a period of time, so that he can dilute the negative impact on you and slowly recall your goodness.
Of course, the cooling-off period doesn't mean that you have completely broken contact. You can still contact him, but you can't be so frequent, let alone pretend to be a couple, exposing your sense of need too much. Just let him know that at this moment, you have really realized how much your shortcomings hurt him, and you are determined to change yourself. You still care about him.
Third, change the wrong way of love in the past.
Being alone with you doesn't mean being with you for no reason. I'm sure you had the advantage of attracting each other. However, with the passage of time, your shortcomings are constantly exposed, and then your love value will be reduced to zero until the other person's patience with you is exhausted.
Therefore, if you want someone to fall in love with you again, you must change some wrong ways of falling in love with her in the past.
For example, the other person obviously doesn't like you sticking to him all the time, but you keep calling.
The other person doesn't like that you are always jealous, but you always doubt each other.
The other party doesn't like you to grovel to her everywhere, and hopes to manage this relationship well together. Everyone can correct their mistakes, but you are worried that because the other person is angry, you will not point out the other person's mistakes and spoil her.