It won't be awkward, growing up alone is the norm!

In college, many of our friends are the first time away from home for so long, may also be the first time to live in school, the first time to go to the planning of their own lives, away from the family during the friends seem to become the straw that keeps away from loneliness!

Everyone tacitly chose a group of people to party together, together to get rid of loneliness, and a person's life as if they have become a different category, and will be afraid that others will look at it with a different eye, "Hey, how does this person walk alone? She is so poor," and then suddenly burst out laughing.

This also always forgets that Life is not for others to see, as long as they are happy, the world is clear.

Psychology has a term called "herd effect", the herd effect is also known as the herd effect, refers to the environment because of the majority of the people are the same behavior and thought, then blindly follow this behavior and thought of the phenomenon. The scary thing is that those who are caught up in it will only follow what the public thinks is right and do, and will not take the initiative to think about whether it is reasonable and suitable for them.

Just like the common phenomenon in life, seeing a long line of a certain milk tea store, you must follow to buy a cup of taste to see if it's good or not, but forgetting that they themselves do not like milk tea.

Some of them are not as good as the others, and they are not as good as the others, so they are not as good as the others, and they are not as good as the others.


Sometimes people who don't fit in are just lonely on the surface, and when they do fit in, they're really lonely on the inside.

In fact, loneliness is not scary, loneliness is scary, everyone is an independent individual, and low-quality group, not as good as high-quality alone, so even if a person to do anything so what, you follow their own plans and arrangements to come on it.

It would be foolish and ridiculous to follow in the footsteps of others and disrupt your own goal planning and rhythm of life for the sake of so-called conformity. Your life is not for other people to see, and other people's evaluation can't be the only standard of whether you live well or not.

So follow your inner choice carefully, choose what you really want at the moment, whether it's to be in a group or to be alone, don't have to deliberately cater to others, the most important thing is not how other people look at you, but how you look at yourself.