Women with weak psychological defenses This kind of woman due to the single for a long time, which leads to the feeling of loneliness with each passing day, it is a great suffering for women, if a man came to accost, I think she and the man will be a hit, after all, love is ultimately a matter of your love, I would like to, the man is catering to the woman's physiological needs, only.　 Love romantic woman There is a kind of drunkenness called wine is not drunk, if a woman loves the feeling of romance, it is good that you are good at creating a romantic atmosphere, to be to the time, place, people together, so that women are trapped in a romantic circle, is bound to let the woman intoxicated, and then lingering, even if reluctant, as well as reluctant to leave, she will also miss not look forward to, from which she feels "addicted" to the romantic feeling! "Indirectly, you are also "addicted".　 Overly vain woman If you have a good feeling about her, do not have to go to great lengths and find ways to pursue her, love thirty-six plans for other women, half of this woman is not useful, rather than directly focus on the family to destroy her feelings of defense, what you do is in her mind, may not be able to give up the army, after all, to throw their good, send their to make this woman love the house and the Wu, not to see your face also have to look at you, but also to see your face. Do not look at your face also have to look at the face of the money.　 Treating the status quo of life with a dissatisfied woman This woman will be out of the purpose of changing the status quo of life, and thus will be sick or panic, to deal with this kind of woman you give her a beautiful blueprint for the future, so that her heart lit up passion and hope, even if it is a cake to fill the hunger or hope for plums to quench the thirst does not matter, the key is that the woman's heart will be comforted by the result of this will be the rest of their lives entrusted to you.　 Have not experienced emotional harm to the woman Driven by the curiosity of love, she will not wait to come forward to find out, this woman to treat the feelings of longing is full of beauty, the slightest reluctance and will not be prepared to guard and fight the man initiated the love offensive, perhaps a man unexpectedly a few sweet words can make this woman intoxicated, can not help but dedicate their own treasured for many years of the first kiss, the next to throw themselves in the arms! The next thing to do is to throw yourself into the arms of a woman who has been in love with you for many years.　Easy to get on the girl 2 Why is it too easy to get a divorced woman First, give her enough security and love.　This is what divorced women experience in several ways. One of the divorces for women is an active divorce. There are some things that are just intolerable, such as domestic violence from the husband, and cheating, or anachronisms between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It's just unbearable to live like that. But there is also some pursuit of life. Therefore, to release the marriage bondage. Then it is divorced. The other kind is divorced, this kind of thing is mostly caused by the mistress and the husband, and the woman does not want to divorce. Only for the children.　The truth is, it doesn't matter which one of the above it is. Women are hurt in their marriages and so their skepticism and alertness to the outside world increases. Therefore, if you fall in love with a divorced woman, just remember one thing, that's enough. She can accept every word you say, every look, every gesture. You only need to speak the truth, you can't coax her with sweet words, because you can coax her for too long, but not for a lifetime. And divorced women today are very smart. To last in a marriage is to want to be loved.　 Second, give her hope for the future.　Also, don't use some of the routines you mentioned, such as you would give her a realistic promise to give her hope for the future. Since promises are always so unattainable, they may not make her happy. Plus some of the so-called relationship routines will not work with her and will even lower your score to you.　Please tell her sincerely what you have now? You want to live with her now. If you have any concerns, tell her along with it. Make him accept your shortcomings, not your practices and deceptions. So just be honest with her.　 Thirdly, get along with her.　If you really love her, you must run towards marriage. If you feel, you can't be sure of yourself and your family, then start with friends, but if you are just having fun, she has no time or mood to play with you. He wants simplicity, just genuine love. She is a divorced woman who has a child, and you need to treat her child as if it were your own as much as possible. Look at you and the child and be able to get along.　And she will be more convinced of your sincerity and love, which makes it easier to accept you. Just keep that in mind and be sincere and you will mesh well. And I hope you find your happiness soon!　Easy to get girls 3 Divorced women are too easy to handle 01, respect the inner need for love, have a rather lack of bottom, more courage to pursue happiness.　Colleague Wang, 35 years old, divorced for three years, so far single. I asked her: "You're so young, your work is so good, and there are a lot of men who like you, so why don't you get married again?" She told me: I have a high school classmate who was divorced and brought up her children by herself. No one in her tired, plus the child slowly grows up, with more and more money, she married a rich man 15 years older than her. The two did not have a relationship, both children quietly compete for the family's resources always conflict, she did not have a good life. The two couples fought a lot, but she had to make do for the sake of the kids. Although I have not encountered this aspect of the problem, but remarried family relations are complex, if the other conditions are not suitable, the two are not true love, I would rather lack than abuse.　I asked her: "So do you have a favorite person in mind?" Xiao Wang smiled and continued: Yes, very much. Our relationship is quite good, and we care about each other. But we are both "once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of well rope." He does not confess, I dare not say. When I was with my ex-husband, I took too much initiative to stick up to him, but in the end, he didn't know how to cherish it and ended up in divorce.　I remember when Yi Neng Jing married Qin Hao, who is nine years younger than her. 46 years old, she got pregnant again and gave birth to a child. She thinks: "If I'm not afraid, then I think that's ignorance without fear, that's because you're ignorant. But if you're so afraid and you still go, I think that's what's called bravery."　Thought so.　 02, holding the attitude of responsibility for both sides, hand over their true hearts.　When Lingling divorced, she didn't have a child yet. Because of the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship affects the couple's relationship, with the escalation of conflicts, resulting in the breakup of the relationship.　When she remarried, she found a boyfriend who did not live with her parents, and although he was also married for the second time, his children followed his mother. At first the first year Lingling felt happy with her life.　Later, her father-in-law had surgery and her mother-in-law had high blood pressure, so they moved in together. My parents-in-law are quite cheerful and accommodating to Ling Ling. But Lingling is very sensitive, probably because she was hurt once, always suspicious, always on the defensive with her mother-in-law. Originally nothing, guessing and guessing the misunderstanding is more, deeper.　Later, my husband's ex-wife went abroad for two years to further her studies, so she entrusted her child to her. The child is seven years old, in first grade, people are very smart. Despite Ling Ling's best efforts, he was very hostile to Ling Ling. The child was not very well and often suffered from small colds. Hubby puts his heart and soul into the child and occasionally complains that Ling Ling is not helping.　Lingling had no experience in taking care of children, plus the child didn't like her and often found fault with her and her husband. Lingling quarreled with her husband, and she was so aggrieved that she ran back to live with her parents. Then came the epidemic, home quarantine, it has been living down. Until this March, when the spring flowers bloomed, her husband came with the child to take her home.　The child apologized to her, "Auntie I'm sorry, I didn't know any better and made you angry!" The husband also hugged her and said that he had not handled all kinds of relationships well before and hoped that she would forgive him.　Hearing the confessions of her husband and children, Lingling was both touched and ashamed. She knew that she had done a lot of things wrong and should have been more considerate of her husband, more tolerant of her children, and more trusting of her mother-in-law.　Lingling's story reminds me of Cao Yu, who was a great master of modern theater in China. Having lost his mother at a young age, he grew up in a depressing atmosphere and had a bitter and introverted personality. But he became the most accomplished playwright in the history of modern Chinese drama because his stepmother brought him to various theaters to listen to songs and watch plays, so the seeds of drama were sown in his heart when he was a child.　Remarried family members are not simple, especially stepmothers, and it is not easy to get along with children. To have a happy `life', it is essential to have a responsible attitude towards each other. Women before marriage in addition to understand clearly each other's family situation is within their own acceptance, the sudden situation after marriage to bear with their husbands. This is a sensible attitude of the second marriage.　And then frankly, delivery of the heart.　As Cao Yu said: long acquaintance, in order to not suspect each other; do not suspect each other, in order to long acquaintance.　 03, accept any consequences of their own choices Garden works in the Civil Affairs Bureau. She gave me a set of data.　In the data released by the Civil Affairs Bureau in the third quarter of 2019, the national divorce rate was as high as 43.53%,, and the highest province had 70.56%. The recent big data on divorce shows that the majority of those who initiate divorce are women, already accounting for more than half, about 73.4%.　Although there is no data here on second-marriage divorces, according to Garden's own understanding of the situation, second-marriage couples also have another divorce. This is obviously a rather hurtful fact.　That's why after Garden divorced her ex-husband, she was reluctant to remarry. Thinking of the frustration of those second divorced people earth, garden garden strong face to face their return to single alone, because it is her own choice of the road.　Garden and her husband have been married for 15 years, and agreed to be a Dink family. But as they are getting older, her husband wants to have children, and he is afraid that if he doesn't have any more children, his wife won't be able to have any more children in the future. He secretly changed his wife's birth control pills to vitamin tablets, causing his wife to accidentally get pregnant and go for two abortions in two years. During the argument, the husband filed for divorce. But Yuan Yuan insisted on not having a child even if she got a divorce.　Six months later, the husband came back to her, hoping to remarry. It turned out that the divorce was just a big move by her husband to force Garden to have a child. Now that he has figured it out, he will respect her in the future and won't ask her to do anything she doesn't want.　Garden Garden husband is a romantic person, led her to the countryside full of flowers, said to her: "hold your hand, in every spring to accompany you to watch the flowers blossom and fall, and grow old with your son!" Garden smiled; this was the vow her husband had initially proposed to her. Hearing this confession again, it was as if she had returned to her first love. She also responded to him with the same words she had used at the beginning, "Everything goes with the flow, I accept all the results of my own choice."　Even the most mature people have their own selfish side when it comes to relationships.　Luckily, there is love. There is love, there is everything.