Parents are responsible for children's reluctance to communicate with their parents.
"A child travels a thousand miles, and the mother worries about Wan Li, but the mother doesn't worry about the child": Parents love their children more than their children love their parents (in the child's growth stage).
First, explain the generation gap.
1. In fact, every parent loves their children. Ask him if he admits it. Then parents are willing to study for their children, and they will forgive their children's behavior mistakes, and parents have done so. 3. Children think that parents don't want to communicate without knowing their children.
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The other party may start from different living environments and times, and should grasp the general direction that the growth of different people is basically consistent with the psychological changes at various stages. Grasp the premise that your parents live in the same era as you.
The other party may also start with some improper behaviors of parents, such as reading children's diaries and text messages, which shows that parents are willing to get to know their children, but the methods are excessive. On the contrary, children are unwilling to know their parents and don't understand them.
What's more, we are talking about the main responsibility, not the whole responsibility. Parents are responsible, but not the main.
Problems in the offensive and defensive phase:
Many people will understand their parents' behavior after becoming parents. Doesn't it mean that the main reason for the generation gap lies in children?