Some people discover comets and black holes through calculation, some people discover new substances through experiments, and some people discover deep secrets through conversation. These are all means.
Do you know how many forms and methods of observation exist? Based on time, space and imagination, I have collected a variety of observation methods for you. You don't have to memorize it, but you should know. Know these complex concepts, then quickly forget them, and then internalize them into tips brought by alphabet hands.
I. Time
Time is one-way, but things in time change periodically; Having a linear deduction; This is inevitable; It is possible; It is completely impossible to become possible. Understand the trend and grasp the future. Someone said "let the bullet fly for a while", so I thought, can you stop the bullet for a while, or make the bullet reverse or turn a corner?
View of time, compare the present with history and illuminate the present with the future. Follow the pace of the times and time, examine the past, present and future, and find the trajectory and development trend of things. In particular, find opportunities in time, but also plug loopholes to make yourself impeccable.
Time changes: the old moon still shines today, and tomorrow's sun will not come early. Looking at today from a historical perspective, there will be more experiences and lessons; If you look at today from tomorrow, you will blame and complain less. History is always strikingly similar, because history is a long river and people are those people; History will always repeat itself, just different people and different scenes. Tomorrow is always beautiful, it depends on whether you can see a bright future and adjust your eyesight and mood now.
Anticipation is to look at the problem from the perspective of efficiency and development. You can see the trend and be informal. This requires clearing away distractions, breaking old ideas and understanding the law.
Second, space.
The universe is infinite, and the space for human activities is limited. Change the angle, change the position, change the posture, and you will find the difference. From the part to the whole, from the structure to the relationship, from the static place to understand the structure, from the passive place to understand the mechanism.
Wait and see, what you see is what you get.
Dynamic observation, in the case that I move but the enemy does not move, observe in circles, conduct three-dimensional reconnaissance and find its internal structure. When I move the enemy, I should lead him by the nose and mobilize him to follow my thoughts so as to observe him in detail.
Vision: Look far.
Aerial view: from high to low.
Peep: Peep in the dark and get information in the dark. Find the truth of the incident through some clues, or see the development trend and result of the whole situation through individual subtle signs. It should be noted that the boss needs smart and capable employees, but he must not tolerate employees prying into his privacy.
Watching the game: the so-called bystander is clear. Although he is a player in the game, it is best to have a bystander's mood and rely on the bystander's eyes so as not to get lost in it.
Gaze: Gaze intently and don't be distracted. Just like Ji Chang learned to shoot. Walking on the edge of a cliff, the most taboo thing is to look at the abyss below. If your eyes only see the road ahead, you will be on the ground.
Third, imagination.
Can you remember what you saw? Can you imagine what you can't see? Can you think of a better way? People's inner activities are invisible, but they can observe their inner thoughts through external behaviors. Think deeply about what you see, and maybe you will find something new.
Observation: observe each other's behavior, pay attention to each other's expressions and attitudes, and understand each other's true intentions. Paul ekman, an American expert in nonverbal communication psychology, pointed out in his book Destructive Emotion: "Our thoughts are private, but our emotions are not. Emotions are open. I mean, we send emotional signals to others through words, facial expressions, manners and so on. Tell others our true feelings. "
Viewpoint: It is an important way to get information to guide the other person to tell the truth with words, that is, rhetoric. Mencius said that "taking words for fun, but not for fun" means using words to lure others to tell the truth, or deliberately keeping silent to lure them to tell the truth themselves. In the discussion of Guiguzi, it is called "fishing to say things, getting people's reality."
Lure, when you can't see other people's movements, you must create conditions to achieve the purpose of watching. Or lure each other into revealing clues.
Look around, ponder over others, and then observe his words and deeds to echo. Nothing is impossible. This is the words in Guiguzi Mopian, that is, "Mo is here, Fu is here, so we must respond." Tao Hongjing explained the meaning of this sentence like this: "This friction is very small. He should write it himself, but the viewer can't see it. If you use it like this, your merits and demerits will be dedicated to it, and the story will not be realized. "
Listening: This is an important method emphasized in many inspirational books. Listen before you speak. Dale Carnegie said: "By listening to each other's opinions, we can not only understand each other's personality, characteristics, needs or dislikes more accurately, but also make each other feel involved."
The middle view, that is, the legendary "seeing the world from the middle".
Introduce, not the law, let others guide the direction and angle.
Debate, overcome one-sidedness, and look at the problem comprehensively and dialectically. We should base ourselves on the overall situation and grasp the key points. From both positive and negative aspects, we can't ignore movement, reality and truth.
Intermediate view: use commercial spies or private detectives. Grasp the process and control the result.
Comparison: that is, observing in comparison. For example, buying things depends on cost performance.
On the other hand: self-examination, self-discovery and self-knowledge. (Socrates: Know Yourself)
Mind: with eyes, the world is small, with heart, the world is big. Because the world is as big as the heart.
Examination: Examine your heart, especially in the most lonely time, to see if you still have the patience to do the little things around you well and do them perfectly.
Perspective: See the essence through the phenomenon. Understand the whole through the part.
Exploration: Only by crossing the river by feeling the stones can we find out the depth of the river. Exploring a minefield, only by trial and error can we discover the truth and the truth.
Borrowing ideas (for reference): Mozi said: "The ancients said:' A gentleman looks at people without looking at water, and meets them by looking at water; If you look in the mirror, you will know good luck and evil. ""A gentleman does not take water as a mirror, but people as a mirror. Taking water as a mirror, you can only see the quality of your face; If you look at people as a mirror, you can predict good luck. Li Shimin of Emperor Taizong deepened the development of Mozi's thought. "With copper as a mirror, you can be well dressed;" Taking history as a mirror, we can see the rise and fall; Take people as a mirror, you can know the gains and losses. "
New observations in the era of big data: data collection, data analysis and data prediction. When you browse the web, you may jump out of the advertising box, and the content is exactly what you want. This was discovered after the computer automatically analyzed your previous reading traces. With the rise of smart wearable devices, your various psychological or physiological activities will be reflected, which can directly analyze your physical condition than your pulse, blood pressure and body temperature. From the degree and speed of skin contraction, sudden change of heartbeat, blood flow speed, etc. We can observe your tension and then infer the situation you are facing; Big data combines your internal subjective feelings, external behaviors and physiological changes to judge your personality characteristics. In this way, when you walk into a store, you won't be surprised that the shopping guide has prepared what you want.
Intelligent observation: The Internet of Things and the Internet constantly collect people's activities, forming massive data, feeding the data back to the algorithm, and the algorithm infers. This is a clever observation. Intelligent observation is infinite in volume and personalized in application, such as accurate push and release of advertisements.