? The first time I've ever seen a woman in a car, I've seen her in a car, and I've seen her in a car, and I've seen her in a car.
? The first time I saw this, I was so happy, but behind the scenes, there were people who wanted to do something wrong, and it was so creepy.
? We love our children, but we need to protect them even more.
? "I have your daughter, give me half a million dollars in half an hour!"
"I don't have that much money, only 33,000."
"That's fine!"
? Blackmail 500,000, seconds to 33,000?Robbery can also bargain?
? Zhejiang Jinhua's Ms. Liu, favorably encountered such a strange thing.
? The day, Ms. Liu received a phone call from her daughter was kidnapped, the other side of the opening is 500,000 yuan.
? A few maneuvers, Ms. Liu was very smooth to cut the price to 33,000, she could not help but doubt: there is such a good thing?
? She tentatively asked: Do you know where I am now? My daughter always told you, right?
? The other party suddenly stammered: your daughter has been crying ...... You, you are not in Jiangxi?
? This time Ms. Liu had a bottom: although her ancestral home in Jiangxi, but has long been in Zhejiang for many years, the robbers are likely to steal personal information, in the name of kidnapping extortion!
? So, she pretended to faint to stabilize the robbers, find a way to contact her daughter to confirm her safety, take the recording on the police.
? I have to say that Ms. Liu is too resourceful, in time to find the suspicion, a big show of acting, the robber was caught off guard.
? However, not everyone has such psychological quality and good luck, not to mention the endless means of crime today:
? Sound synthesis, image ps, many parents are eager to save their children, scattered family money, if the child is cheated, it is even more unbearable.
? If you think it's too early for safety education, criminals will just be glad your kids don't know anything.
? Both parents and children need to tighten the string of safety education early.
? It is no exaggeration to say that as long as there is a person's circle of friends, you can almost grasp the entire life of TA.
? Many parents like to sunshine in the circle of friends, what to eat, what to play, what to learn, can not wait to sleep and take a bath all live again.
? However, behind these seemingly ordinary behavior, but is providing a breeding ground for crime.
? A mom in Guizhou, Xiaojuan, was almost blackmailed for 3 million dollars.
? Xiaojuan's circle of friends a piece of the years, ex-boyfriend Zheng Mou saw, then wanted to borrow money with her, but unexpectedly was pulled black.
? Zheng Mou in a fit of pique, according to the photos of the circle of friends to follow the melon, kidnapped Xiaojuan 7-year-old son, extortion millions.
? It was only in the early hours of the next morning that police rescued the shivering child from the abandoned and dangerous building.
? As you can imagine, if something bad happens to the child because of this photo, Juan will have to spend his whole life in guilt.
? When you are immersed in the fun of sunbathing, you don't know how many people with ulterior motives are hiding in the shadows, rubbing their hands together.
? The newest addition to the list is the newest addition to the list, the newest addition to the list.
Don't underestimate the evil of so-called "friends" on social media platforms. When private information is turned into a weapon, the first one to get hurt is the child.
? A program has done a test to deceive children using the information of the circle of friends.
? In the dessert store, the scammer waited for the opportunity to talk to the little girl waiting alone for her mom.
? At first, the little girl was very cautious, with defensiveness written all over her eyes.
? However, the scammer has long done his homework, from the circle of friends know the name of the girl and her mother, and the child to talk.
? Then also pulled out his phone, the group photo found in the circle of friends to the child.
? The first time I saw this, I was able to see the girl's face and her eyes.
? The mother of the background at this time has been in tears, she never dreamed that the sun baby has become the main culprit to hurt the child.
? A survey showed that 50% of the photos on pedophile websites come from various social media.
? These photos are either used for profit, fake news, or even online bullying.
? These ordinary photos of children are as tempting as prey to perverts.
? I can't imagine what kind of bullying and torture a child would go through if he or she fell into the hands of these people.
? Barclays, the UK's third largest bank, has issued a warning based on statistics:
? "Sunbathing" will expose two-thirds of young people to identity fraud in a decade's time, costing ￡667 million a year, and by 2030 will generate 7.4 million incidents of identity fraud a year.
Every time you show off and share, every time you reap the satisfaction of a like, you could be laying a landmine for your child.
Don't easily expose your children to the risky Internet, and don't wait until reality slaps us in the face to recognize the evils of human nature.
Don't always think that children are small and unintelligent enough to be scammed; some near-adults can't escape from the scams they face.
The BBC and other foreign media reported that in the first half of 2020, there were eight cases of kidnapping of Chinese students in Sydney, Australia, with a total ransom amounting to 16 million yuan.
However, some of the kidnappings were just "cloud kidnappings" staged by fraudsters.
Shanghai's Mr. Yao reported that his son, who was studying in the United Kingdom, had been kidnapped for a ransom of 1.5 million yuan.
The kidnappers used his son's WeChat to threaten him and demand money, and even sent him a picture of him naked and tied up, as well as a voice call for help:
When the police finally found the boy, he was safe and sound in a hotel, not kidnapped at all.
What's going on here?
Originally, this "kidnapping case" routine is:
Fraudsters posing as public prosecutors and law enforcement officers, lied to the child suspected of money laundering offenses, and if you do not cooperate with the investigation, you will face jail time.
? Because fraudsters steal personal information in advance, they can also concoct a decent Interpol Wanted, which children usually believe.
? The next step is to warn the child that he or she will be kept in the dark and under 24-hour surveillance, or else he or she will be "punished according to the law".
? When the child lived in the hotel and the outside world disconnected, the fraudsters will use the synthesized picture and voice, knocking their parents a sum.
In fact, the fraudulent impersonation of the identity to cooperate with the investigation is an old routine.
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? First, because the robbers are cunning and use personal information to create extremely realistic lies, but also because international students are generally young, isolated, helpless and simple, once the liar borrows the identity of the authority, the words of the child will instantly lose the ability to judge and analyze.
There is a saying:
? Regardless of what age and what education, as long as there is still gullible thinking habits, that is a dead end.
? At the end of the day, a child's compromised privacy, fragile mind, and ignorance of aggression are allowing criminals to take advantage of the situation.
? The first time I saw a movie, I saw a movie, I saw a movie, I saw a movie.
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These are the first time I've ever seen a child in the world who has been in a state of shock, and I think it's a good idea for him or her to have a good time," he said.
? Mental independence and physical safety are fundamental to a person's well-being.
? In addition to caring for your child's academic skill development, you must not neglect the underlying design of safety education and thinking skills.
? Nietzsche said: when you stare into the abyss, the abyss stares back at you.
? Being in the cyber world, we have to protect and educate our children with the same vigilance of gazing into the abyss.
Watch out for common scams
? Do you know why celebrities always protect their children so tightly?
? Not posting random frontal photos of your kids, personal information and habits is the best protection in this day and age.
? At the same time, parents also have the obligation to keep their children alert at all times to people who can not confirm their identity, especially away from the following kinds of people:
People who claim to be police officers, bank officers, couriers;
People who claim to be their parents' friends and colleagues;
Strangers who seek help and other hitchhikers;
People who inexplicably ask you to keep a secret.
? Even vulnerable people such as pregnant women, the elderly and children should not be trusted, as they are likely to be "bait" for criminals.
Of course it is important to be kind and helpful to others, but in the case of a child with little self-protection and no parental supervision, I would rather tell the child:
? You don't have to be so kind because you're a child and no one will blame you for rejecting others for self-preservation.
? Your kindness shouldn't be a handle to be used.
Teach your children to face the "human trap"
? Many times it's not the crooks who are clever, it's just the weaknesses in human nature that make people stupid.
? Not greedy for small advantages, not hilarious, not casually curious, is to bypass the root of the fraud trap.
? Countless experiments at home and abroad have shown that to abduct a child, a little snack toy, or even a puppy is enough.
Nowadays, the network is full of scams for children:
? Free game equipment, recharge bonus cashback, induced nude shooting, even online class platforms are infiltrated with bad information.
? But the most terrible thing is not around the trap, but the trap is right in front of you, but do not realize.
? We are always reluctant to promote the dark side of society and human nature to our children, but the truth is, we can't protect our children in a glass enclosure forever, and we can't always help them to remove the falsehoods and save the truth, to protect them.
? The only way for children to learn to shine a light on the hidden corners with wisdom and courage is to face up to the greed, vanity, envy and fear in human nature early on.
More communication and timely identification of problems
? During the epidemic, the 10-year-old son of a front-line nurse, three days game recharge 100,000 yuan, almost spent all the family savings.
? I thought this was a bear child, but after reading his chat with his dad, I couldn't help but feel sorry for him.
? The child urged the money, the father transferred, in addition to a brief exchange and figures, not a word of "nonsense".
? The first thing you need to do is to ask your parents if they're not around, and there's no question or concern about what's going on with your child if he or she is in trouble and endangering his or her life.
? During this time, there have been a number of tragedies involving teenage suicides, and some people say that children are now too psychologically fragile.
? Unbeknownst to us, we only see the fruit of suicide, but ignore the cause behind it.
? Psychologists say:
? Behavioral problems are almost always backed by relationship problems.
? Relationships are like plumbing. When the relationship plumbing is smooth, nothing matters. If the relationship pipeline is not smooth, everything is related.
? A child who is open and willing to communicate is less likely to be paranoid even when he makes mistakes or encounters difficulties.
? And if the heart is depressed, then any small thing can trigger a crisis.
? More care, more communication, more communication, is likely to save a child's life.
? It is said that there is no privacy in the age of big data, technology provides convenience and brings inevitable risks.
? In fact, what we have to guard against is not the network itself, but to recognize human nature with our children, not to fall into the trap easily; at the same time, we should sound the alarm for ourselves, not to be poked and prodded, and not to be able to pull ourselves out of the swamp in the darkness of human nature.
? The best word in the world is "false alarm".
? I hope that all the children can learn the lesson of self-protection before they really see the evil of society and the dangers of the world, so that when they break through the road of life, they will be invincible and triumph over the thorns.