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A letter to my daughter
My dear daughter:

Time passes, the baby six pounds, two taels and 48 centimeters, grew into now standing, ideas, good speech 13-year-old girl.

Looking back on the past, the teeth to learn to shout the first sound of father, mother, listening to his father talk about the "Three Character Classic" inadvertently memorized more than ten sentences surprise around the crowd. After drinking milk and eating rice flour and grabbing buns, growing up day by day, shaking out the first step of your life. Kindergarten speech "Ice Dog" won first place, full of confidence, childhood reading "Greyhound", "I want to be friends with you", raise the big white, small sharp teeth, XiXi with you as a companion, "to be by your side is my luck". When I was in elementary school, I was procrastinating and absent-minded, and it was common for me to write homework late into the night. But what I have never forgotten is the excitement of dancing the tiger dance together, the joy of winning the prize in the jump rope competition, the pride of painting calligraphy all over the wall, the triumph of posing for the Latin dance, and the excitement of talking about eating a big meal. Just into the middle school, the placement test 51 of the worried, military training straight posture, habits of the gradual change, the midterm examination of 33, writing to do the focus and serious, everything seems to be in the direction of good development.

Time rushes, Dad has reached the age of confusion, a job with a low income, there is not much to show off the highlights. Compared to, the landlord's I dare not be interested in money, star net red of the bright and beautiful, political figures pointing to the mountains, scientists of the fruitful, and so on, your dad is an ordinary person. If you have to describe, the most apt word is "ordinary". But don't underestimate the fact that everything is not easy to come by. Dad has also seriously "hard" to study, got into a key high school, and then do not dare to slack off, and finally graduated from the 985 master's degree. In retrospect, my father was the first 985 master's degree of his middle school classmates, and one of the few among his high school classmates. I didn't let your grandpa and grandma worry about finding a job, and after work, I worked hard, and more positions to refine, and more departments to practice, so I can say that my resume is rich, and I've got something to show for it.

Time passes, Dad has completed more than half of the journey of life, have paid, have gained, there are regrets. How do you say it? Existing living conditions, I have been very satisfied, reading after work, sipping tea, laughing at the wind and clouds, the family is happy. Look at your poor learning results, exams are often frustrated, and strong words, sophistry, I want you to be quiet and listen carefully, and would like to tell you their own perception, to take you to appreciate the beauty of mathematics, the magic of physics, the vagaries of the financial world, behavioral psychology is incredible, the first grams of mathematics, physics and chemistry, and then defeat the English language, politics, history, until the professional choice and life planning, the least of which can teach you to control their own desires, The worst can teach you to control your own desires, use financial strategies, and ride the rise of China to protect a lifetime of ordinary life. But life is not a game, life is only a few decades. The more I reach my father's age, the more I feel that life is easy to die, life is not easy. People can live in the world for a few hours, there must be some pursuit, a little faith. I don't want to be known in history, but I have to pursue, work hard, be persistent, persevere, be troubled, and have no regrets, until I have no shame, and my heart is clear.

The time is now, and the dream life has just begun. Today, the world's rapid development of biotechnology, artificial organs, telomere research, etc. may greatly extend the life of people, so that life has more choices. The advent of artificial intelligence and the era of big data allows us to know ourselves better than ever before, and it is no longer difficult to choose a life worth pursuing. The energy revolution, space technology, and digital finance have made people's lives better. In the future perhaps we care more about the spiritual satisfaction of self-realization, rather than choosing to lie flat of getting by and waiting for death. Cherish the present and work hard for a life that needs no justification. Dad is the same, will spend a lot of time and energy in more meaningful places, active, focused, diligent learning, good thinking, live a good life every day. Just like now, day by day, the more books are read, the more notes are taken, the more things are done, the more things are tried, the more insights are gained, and the more inner peace is achieved.

My dear daughter, when one day, you are no longer just a promise but seriously to do, no longer count the gains and losses but focus on the process, no longer repeatedly weigh the pros and cons but choose to go beyond the self, the goddess of fortune will favor you, the more you try the more fortunate. Life is worth your pursuit, your efforts, your persistence, your perseverance, your obsession, your no regrets, I believe you can!

Love, Dad

2021.8.8