For young men and women who want to get married but can't find an object, matchmaking is a good way, but 18 matchmaking sessions a day is really against common sense, which is very undesirable.

January 10, 2021, the media broke the news on the network of Henan Zhoukou, a 23-year-old girl, when she returned home from abroad for the New Year, her parents commissioned the township matchmakers to introduce the object, and urged the girl to complete the lifelong affairs as soon as possible, and the girl in one day was arranged to be more than as long as 20 blind date meeting. In the face of the reporter's interview, the girl called the marriage as if it had become their own must complete the task, the pressure is great.

I. In the era of freedom of marriage and love, parents should encourage young people to find their own marriage partners.

The blind date style love arranged by parents for their children is to some extent also a representative of fast food love, young men and women do not have a deep knowledge and understanding of each other, and after a few months of blind date, they are quickly stepping into the marriage hall. And such fast-food dating love, but also increased the rate of marital unhappiness and divorce rate. Compared to blind dates, free love should be more supported and recognized by parents.

II. Blind dates can indeed be a solution to some young men and women's marital needs.

It is also true that love can develop between young men and women on blind dates, but there are very few examples of people who developed love on blind dates and ended up in marriage. According to the big data analysis, the people who go on blind dates are mainly divided into two categories, the first category is the highly educated or successful in their career, but are forced by their parents to go on blind dates, and the other category is the young men and women who are not successful in their careers and have poorer family conditions. There are also many examples of successful marriages through blind dates. I have to say, matchmaking does for young men and women to expand the way of communication, but also solved some of the single young men and women's marriage needs.

three, the blind date should be arranged reasonably, and give the woman or man more time to consider and deliberate.

More than 20 blind date meetings a day is not desirable, whether it is a man or a woman, they should be in a position of equal respect for the status of the blind date to love, and not to pick the best looks or the best education and family conditions for the purpose of blind date. Matchmaking is also about efficiency, and 20 matchmaking meetings a day not only speeds up the time it takes for men and women to meet and get to know each other, but it also makes women miss out on more opportunities where they can choose and get to know each other. This is extremely unreasonable for a blind date arrangement.

In short, matchmaking can be the best way for men and women to meet and get to know each other, but matchmaking arrangements should be reasonable and moderate, and should not be based on superficial efficiency.