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After the opening of the second child, many families entered the second child family. No matter whether the family has conditions or not, many people have one more child just for the sake of family fun. In fact, most families who have a second child have certain expectations.

For example, now big data shows that the first child is a daughter, and the chances of having a second child are higher, while the chances of having a second child in the first child are much lower.

This actually means that the economic pressure of having children is different, so everyone chooses to have a second child for different purposes. Some people want to have both children, and some families just want to have sons.

So even though sons represent the economic pressure of today's society, some people just like sons, that is, they are eager to have a second child and several children. So if they have two children in a row, how will they feel as Bao Dad?

Bao Xiao, who has just upgraded her second child Bao Da:

Bao Xiao is 32 years old, and has welcomed his second little princess. When the first little princess was born, don't mention how much he liked it, because at that time he wanted to have a little girl.

I feel that my daughters are my father's intimate little cotton-padded jacket, and it is a sweet moment to pester myself to call my father every day. But as the boss grew bigger, he began to feel a lot in his heart, and sometimes he could cry at the thought that his beloved daughter was going to marry when she grew up.

So he thought he might be a little affected by being surrounded by women, so he discussed with his wife to have a second child and a little boy to distract him. As a result, the second child was born as a little princess.

At that time, when it was announced that it was a daughter, Bao Xiao cried directly. I thought the experience of sending away a little princess was hard to digest, so I had to send away two. Who can stand it?

Now he looks at two little princesses who love and hate each other. Love is true love, but hate is that they are girls who are going to marry in the future. They can no longer be their own little cotton-padded jacket and have to go to other people's homes to serve others. That is the reality.

Middle-aged second-born daughter's mountain:

Dashan and his wife belong to an unexpected second child, because they are both 40 years old and have a second child in middle age. They have their eldest daughter, who also graduated from college this year.

It's just that this daughter makes the old couple nervous every day, for fear that their daughter will be wronged outside, so they all grew up together, and even the university chose to be close to home.

I can't go to a relatively far place after work. The daughter lives alone, and the old couple can't sleep every night for fear that something will happen to her. As a result, my wife suddenly found herself pregnant.

So the two told their daughter, and the daughter accepted it gladly, but according to their current state, they didn't want to have a daughter, and the second child was born as a daughter.

The Dashan couple once collapsed, because they didn't have the energy to raise a second child and were afraid, because after all, this society is still not very good for girls.

Many families don't want to have daughters, because their daughters will get married one day, and as parents, the small jewelry that they have carefully cared for for for more than 20 years will be given to others without any return.

This kind of mood is really hard, and it will be hard to relieve for a long time, and the most important thing is that after marrying someone, I live with others most of the time.

My parents will ignore a lot, so many parents don't want to have daughters because of the water poured out by their married daughters. Even if it's ugly, it's reality.

How many people can often go back to their parents' home after marriage? This is really too little, so many parents will feel lost after giving birth to their daughters.

Old age with a daughter will be lonely.

It is said that the family that marries a daughter is getting more and more lonely, but it is a good thing to marry a daughter-in-law. Although it costs some money, you can see the status of the two families on the wedding day.

In addition, this is indeed a reality. After the daughter gets married, the family adopting the daughter can only stay at home with the eyes of the old couple wide open, no matter what holidays, while the family adopting the son is as busy as a bee.

The whole family can get together to celebrate this festival. At this time, in fact, families with daughters are very lonely, especially in the context of festivals.

So it's really lonely to have a daughter in old age, which is why many families don't want to have daughters, especially when they have two daughters. When they get old, they won't even touch one.

Whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as the parents' education is in place, they will not let their children go astray. Although it is true that you were lonely after your daughter got married, you are still two children.

The big deal is that every Spring Festival, the two children take turns to accompany their parents for the New Year. After all, the rules are dead and people are alive, so as long as the children are filial, you will be happy whether you have boys or girls.

Do you prefer to have a son or a daughter? What is your mentality of having two daughters in a row? Welcome everyone to leave a message at the bottom of the screen!