The long road of life, a lot of sadness is not due to a specific thing, but more of an emotion, she long time poking in the throat, can not swallow.
This negative emotion is often related to their own confusion.
The only way to reduce this risk is to live each period to the fullest.
What the Warrior says today is only about the phenomenon, and will not try to explain it, because it is too difficult to attribute and the Warrior is too lazy (in case it says something, it was not held back, do not expect too much from the Warrior).
The single period, is everyone must go through a period of time, the difference is the length of time just.
There is also a magic in being single: the longer you are single, the more you like being single.
First of all, don't imagine that being single is so sad. It's a good idea to think that being single is a result of not being good enough.
Sometimes, it's the opposite, many people are single because they are good.
There is a friend of mine who has this flavor.
He loves sports and runs marathons. For him, pushing the limits with panting and panting can actually bring him a higher level of happiness.
At the same time, he loves reading and traveling. If there are people with the same interests, then let's go together.
No, it's a long way to go, no need to see me off (you have to go).
He utilizes his time wisely because he can do what he wants and doesn't have to accommodate anyone.
It's that simple and efficient.
Like a green plant in the wilderness, it flourishes and grows as it pleases.
Sometimes, I even suspect that "single" is too simple and crude.
Being single is not only a state of being, but also a state of mind.
This state of mind has the following qualities:
A. Doing things the way they were meant to be done, not wanting to compromise their ideas;
This means not wanting to compromise in exchange for support; it also means doubling down on your efforts;
B. Low tolerance for error. This point, in fact, is more like the extension of A, because they are used to do it alone , so the direction of things more demanding;
In short, high-quality single, is green, he is vigorous, exuberant, but also cool, a little unsympathetic.
The cultures of East and West are sometimes coincidentally hard to explain.
In the age of artificial intelligence and big data, foreign friends drummed up a short film, actually a perfect interpretation of the Tang Dynasty Li Bai (701-762), "childhood sweethearts, two little no guess", as well as a more distant "holding hands with their sons to grow old with them". ".
The coincidence is so unreal.
Most of the love that we yearn for exists on the screen or in the poems that have been passed down by word of mouth.
In real life, love is always about fireworks.
In the meantime, you will consciously commit yourself for her.
The paradox is that the way of self-commitment does not necessarily achieve the purpose of pleasing the other side.
Such examples abound, let's look at a microcosm:
A couple of lovers, the boy is more home. Unluckily, fell in love with a lively girl. After the establishment of the relationship, the boy will take the initiative to accompany the girl to participate in a variety of parties. Of course, he didn't really get into it after all.
As expected, the later quarrel.
Hanging rail and familiar dialog appeared:
"In order to make you happy, I entrusted myself to accompany you out of the crazy, you are still not satisfied," the boy said,
"You said earlier, and I did not force you to go, do you know that I am afraid that you are not happy, and take care of you at all times, and tired yourself.
The boy said, "I didn't force you to go.
A typical 1+1<1 thing.
The two aggravations have not become a complete happiness.
During the period of love, people seem to be hardwired with an extra set of perception systems.
Since then, there has been more than one with her close to the joys and sorrows.
Think about it is also very fair:
"Get does not belong to you to get, will inevitably lose does not belong to you to lose".
The indestructibility of matter and the conservation of energy turned out to be the supreme principle of the universe!
What is a good relationship like?
Whatever, as long as you're happy.
What is a good relationship like?
A bonus: people don't remember things linearly, they remember them in a "sandwich" fashion.
Only the beginning and the end of the experience are remembered, and in the middle, whether it's a mess or a feast, it has very little impact on the event.
So before you go out together, use up most of the tenderness you've prepared.
When you have a fight, whatever it is, be smart about how you end it.
Ps: When I say this, I don't mean that the middle process can be reckless. After all, turning back and coaxing is also laborious and doesn't make sense economically.