Older leftover women and older leftover men relative to the future who has a more miserable life? If they both chose to get married later, it's hard to tell the outcome because everyone's status changed from being single to having a family, and I'd like to focus on the topic of who ends up a little more miserable if they chose not to get married.
Who is more miserable at the end of not getting married, men or women? Both are miserable without money, but men will be relatively better off.
First of all, why do you say no money are miserable, in other words, have money is not considered miserable.
Not being married means not having children, and the chances are you won't have anyone to take care of you when you get older because you don't have any money, and even if your immediate children and nephews are willing to take care of you, what about the children and nephews' significant others? Will they be willing to take care of someone who has no obligation and gets no benefit?
We can't run away from reality, even though there are more sentient beings in this world.
On the contrary, if you have the money, most of your children and nephews are more willing to take care of themselves, and if you have the money, you can also choose to go to a nursing home.
That's why having money doesn't mean you have to use the word "miserable" to describe your old age.
Second, let's analyze why men who don't get married are relatively better off than women.
This is actually related to our traditional culture, no matter whether a family is rich or poor, the ancestors will more or less leave some property to their descendants.
While men and women should have equal rights to inherit the "family business", the fact is that women are excluded from the distribution of the "family business" in an ordinary family, and are not considered.
From this level, even if a man does not get married, his children and nephews, if they want to get their share of the property of the elders when they grow old, will naturally have to take care of their elders.
This is the reason why a man who does not get married in his life will be in a better position than a woman in the end.
Finally, as ordinary people, we really don't recommend not getting married or even having children for the rest of your life.
It's true that being alone is great, but honestly, as you get older, being alone makes it harder and harder to get through the days ahead.
When your parents get old, no one will share the burden for you, or even, after a hundred years of your parents, all that is left is your lonely self.
At the same time, when passing by other people's homes, seeing a happy family, the older you get, the more your heart aches, and when you get old, no one wants to be a lonely old man.
Of course, if still has become a lifetime of unmarried old man, there is no need to sigh long sigh, more and around the old man walking, exchanges, some things can not be changed, why not be happy to spend every day.
Life is too short to get married, so don't run away, don't refuse.
Have a family, have a child although it will be over some hard work, but those hard work are worth it, we do everything for the family and children, are proof that we really come to this world.