According to the survey also in 30,000 people, half of the people have been cleaved or cheating experience, which marriage derailment of people also accounted for the majority of this set of data to say what? Whether in marriage or love, this probability will always appear, someone in the survey can distinguish between long-distance marriage (love), tourism and travel, the other party is not at home, entertainment venues and so on, the proportion of derailment is not the same.
What is the most feared emotionally? From the picture can be seen should be quarrel, this proportion of girls in 38%, higher than the proportion of men, which shows that in the relationship quarrel easy to let the feelings of cracks; it is easy to let the people who have the heart from which to break apart, the feelings of the ripples will be easy to seek consolation, the girls want to be consoled and support, so the proportion in this will be relatively high.
But this is not an absolute girl probability is stereotyped, which is for most of the situation of women were out of the real idea, at present the same way men will also appear in this situation, but the probability of male cheating relative to the quarrel of this emotion will be a lot lower, generally do not want to use derailment to take revenge on their own loved ones, unless the situation of the outrage has not been resolved.
Here we look at the data in the same situation to entertainment venues, the probability of men cheating in 17%, the probability of women cheating 3%; this ratio also has a certain sharp contrast, indicating that once a woman confirmed a man, she will be straight forward love their partners, will not be because of any occasions and changes, indicating that the woman in the feelings of a very dedicated.
And the difference is that the proportion of men in this condition and high, because of the entertainment occasions under the stimulation, temptation, fresh and so on the outside world is willing to produce betrayal behavior, so in this survey can be seen in the women than men in the entertainment venues are more determined, will not be because of go out to play and lead to emotional betrayal behavior.
There is also a set of data this set of data may also be one of the reasons why the divorce rate is now higher in society, that is, the other party is not in the home of the frequency is higher, big data can be seen in the proportion of men and women is relatively flat a state , that is, no matter whether it is the man side of the family at home at home, this derailment of the male 15 percent, female 17 percent ratio.
This is actually understandable, now the social progress is getting faster and faster standard of living is also constantly improving, for each other at home for too long, both from the psychological needs of both belong to the empty zone, with the ability to understand the words that is the emptiness, loneliness, insecurity and so on the psychological needs of the two sides of the ratio is also relatively resolved.
Business trip this factor we can see a phenomenon, that is, the probability of men is much higher than that of women, the reason is also more prominent in the "intentionality", business trip time is not long, but men and women derailment ratio is 8% and 3%, can be seen in the face of the men of their partners are not around and the emergence of betrayal is also more.
Business trip can usually see the man's heart, a mature man for the temptation of restraining ability will be relatively high, but this phenomenon can restrain the cat does not fishy situation is rare, so the men of the outside world will be relatively weak temptation ability, and men too much flirt in the direction of the direction of cheating on the business trip probability will be higher than that of the women.
I have also talked about this topic of marriage in different places and written an article, in fact, the risk is relatively high and and the other party is not at home the probability of the same, the difference is that the different places may be because of men and women on the situation on the more solid probability of risk than no longer at home a little lower than the probability of so.
The risk of alienation will also exist emotional uncertainty, in the face of cheating on both sides of the emotion will be the test of the two, for the feelings of the conviction will let others can not do anything, I see the risk of alienation is really hard to hold on, so the gap between the two will still be there, there will be fluctuations.
Travel on the derailment data is also there, but this proportion of men and women there is the probability of derailment, I saw the results of this survey, came up with an answer to the depths of betrayal is also because of insufficient love for each other, we refer to the tourism is their own one person out to play, a single person out there will be prone to the probability of emergence.
In fact, we should be more concerned about the last set of data "not specific" why this set of data is so high?
And in this group of data it all caught up with the emotional rift, but also caused many people to pay attention to a data, I summarize and colleagues, friends, strangers, these three kinds of relationships can also be included in it, unspecific factors I believe that there will be more, I can be summarized out of these are the only ones.
I believe that no one in a marriage would want this to happen, nor would they want to see it happen, and who would want to joke about their name and reputation? The factors that have been seen to occur so far are roughly these points above, so if we avoid this in marriage, then cheating will not occur.
I see many cases, so-and-so star and so on, they have a "little three" and "little four", this is not unilateral, there are many objective reasons for betrayal, women only in the psychological defense was crushed at that moment, she will choose to betray their loved ones. Will choose to betray their loved ones, no one wants to be in marriage and love each other cold.
We see a lot of people in life, for no apparent reason, let other colleagues or friends into each other's lives, which in many ways is because the other side of the heart to the injury, often see the marriage into the man will not be expressed, the woman hopes that their men will be romantic, over time the two appeared to be communication barriers, the man began to do not want to go home or long-term absence from home.
Think sometimes women in marriage is very impatient, the husband home of the silence of the wife's nagging, the wife into a spit tool, it is not all because of the man "caused"? Men are the top of the sky, as the head of the family can afford to put down, more communication with his wife, home more romantic that marriage is not more beautiful?
We often use a phrase to describe the marriage to escape but seven years, now this time is intensifying, the time from the beginning of the seven years gradually become 3 years, 5 years this is also because life has become bland, feelings also began to become no and change, the test of marriage is the two people's "determination".
This "strength" used to guard the bottom line of each of us, for marriage we see the temptations of the outside world is very large, we have to maintain the heart, adhere to their own bottom line for the positive results, the data is just data it represents a statistical probability, but we can not not go to pay attention to it, perhaps through the data we can The first thing we can do is to find a better solution to the problem.
I believe that in a marriage or a relationship, our feelings for our partner are real, so we should continue to maintain our true feelings for our partner, and in a marriage there are children, property, and other factors that make up the marriage, so we can't go and destroy this stability, can we?
We can see through the data regardless of men and women will have the phenomenon of derailment, but as a mature man, we can avoid the tragedy, so that the woman to get more security and thus more confidence in the family, marital derailment of the person once found, the marriage can continue the possibility of very low, not many people can forgive the betrayal of their own people.
I believe I have seen the volcanic eruption of the spectacular, this spectacular can make the destruction of the world, can also be said to destroy is a family, the impact of their own world, corresponding to the marital crisis, we need to face the marriage of reason, to make a fight to do a family happiness.
Through the above set of data can only illustrate some of the phenomenon, but if there are problems in the marriage, we have to pay more attention to and solve, we have to solve the concept of communication and give to the lover's tolerance.
Whether it is a star or an ordinary person, we can do is to guard the family behind themselves, for the love of stick to the heart.