Please Big Data recommend me to sisters who are preparing for marriage.

What is the process of a formal marriage proposal? Proposals and engagements come in order oh.

Preparation:

When the time is ripe for men and women to get along with each other and want to talk about marriage, the man must go to the woman's home and implore the woman's parents to agree to your marriage. This is the meaning of the proposed marriage, the proposed marriage should be determined by the woman's family before the date, but also have the matchmaker and the male parents present to show respect. (That is, the meaning of the man and his parents to the door)

Booking, as the name suggests, is the meaning of the affinity booked, that is, men and women to oral or written form of the marriage contract, is an important process before the marriage. The date of betrothal is generally to pick a good day, the presence of friends and relatives are also more. Only the first proposed marriage, can be fixed, so it is the first proposed marriage and then engaged.

Purpose and results are different:

The main purpose of the marriage proposal is to express the sincerity of the man's marriage, can be said to be the man's unilateral behavior, as for the marriage can not come true, but also depends on the woman's parents can agree to, this time the two are still boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. When the woman's parents accept the man's proposal of marriage, willing to let their daughter and the man into marriage, this is called betrothal, can be said that the betrothal is a result of the proposal of marriage.

After the engagement, the man and the woman enter the state of unmarried couple. Although the marriage proposal and engagement of the man are required to prepare gifts (generally is to prepare the woman's family gifts for each person, alcohol and tobacco is essential), but the engagement of the gifts will be more expensive (this according to the custom of each party) (such as: bride price, three gold \ hardware, cosmetics, gifts and so on) and the woman will be according to the custom of the return gift (this according to the custom of each party).

Precautions:

In the proposal of marriage, the process is relatively simple, the main attention to clothing grooming and attitude problems, to dress properly, grooming to be clean and neat, to be polite and keep smiling to respect the views of the female side of the main. And the engagement link is more need to pay attention to more.

Bridal gift to what, how much bride price, wedding ring to choose which, as well as the choice of engagement banquet place, the day to wear what clothing, and even the banquet dishes, etc., these are to be negotiated well in advance, mainly to the local customs and the parents of both sides of the opinion shall prevail. (Of course, it is also necessary to measure their own economic strength).

Preparation list:

1, bride price.

The amount is generally pre-negotiated auspicious figures, in the marriage proposal, both sides of the marriage to reach agreement, given to the female parent's mind, mainly to show the degree of sincerity of the male party.

2, tobacco and alcohol.

Two brands of cigarettes, generally choose China-based, liquor can choose Wuliangye, Maotai, etc., the grade can not be too low.

3, supplements.

The elderly, you can prepare some bird's nest, Cordyceps sinensis, American ginseng and other high-grade supplements.

4, dried fruit.

Need to prepare the early birth of a series of dried fruits, such as cinnamon, jujubes, peanuts, lotus seeds, lilies and other high-quality dried fruits, but also some people to prepare two coconuts, implying that there is a master has a son.

5, meat.

Here you can choose chicken, duck and fish, some people choose to send some pork with Jinhua ham, the meat needs to be clean, fresh and decent.

6, milk.

Generally, you can carry 2 small boxes of milk, more appropriate than sending other beverages for some young and old.

7, fruit.

Fresh fruit is one of the best choices for gift-giving, you can generally choose oranges, cherries, cantaloupe and other varieties.

8, tea.

This is one of the bride's parents elders gift must-haves, pay attention to be sure to equip 2 gift boxes, not singular.

9, candy.

Four-color sugar, icing sugar, orange cake, winter melon candy, Jin Ce, meaning love sweet life happy and full.