Their own behavior to drive other people
Their own behavior to drive other people, want to drive other people is actually a very difficult thing, but can do to drive other people, generally speaking, are successful people, is worth learning from other people, the following to understand their own behavior to drive other people.
Their own behavior to drive other people 1If you want others to do something, just ask for the mouth, the effect will not necessarily be good. But if you take action and take the lead, the results may be different.
In the company to make a job, then do not just stay in the level of saying, but to practice. When you have very tight planning, you have to go to work to act, as long as the direction is clear, so that people feel that things have value, those good people will all follow your footsteps until things are done.
At home, you want your child to finish his homework ahead of time, say it many times and maybe he doesn't act on it. But if you first put down your phone, pick up a pen and paper and start writing, your child will soon sit down and take out his homework and write it, driven by you. This is the most effective way to get the child into the learning state, but also a shortcut.
Whether it's at work or at home, whether it's with coworkers or with your kids. If you want to get your ideas off the ground, get people to move in the direction you've specified. Don't just point the finger, take action, use action to drive everyone's mobility, and also more efficiently help the goal to be accomplished.
Change yourself, drive others
I remember the movie "33 days of lost love" there is a line "you have not even been born, talk about what life", and before the breakthrough of the circle of friends of Han Han Han, "after the meeting" inside the line: "You have not even viewed the world, where the world view" In my opinion, these two paragraphs are just a kind of flirtation, a kind of banter. Does life have anything to do with being born? I have never been born, I have no life, then I have been so many years in what.
And we often say that the "world" in the worldview refers to a person's perspective of the "world", not the whole objective world, even if it is a woman who lives in the mountains all her life, she also has her own worldview. Of course, the world view is naturally different when you look at it from a broader perspective.
The Ideal World of My Heart is the theme of our article in February, and it is the ideal world of my heart, the world that I feel, the world that I want to pursue, the world that I have set up in various stages of the struggle to achieve the small plan and thus converge into a big goal.
When I was a child, I ate a piece of sugar that my parents had not allowed me to eat for a long time, and the sweet taste filled the whole taste buds and warmed the whole heart, and that piece of sugar was my wonderful world. Bigger, although it is a girl, has been playing with the rest of the brother's toys, do not have a flannel toys I, in the birthday of my brother with their own pocket money suddenly sent me a bear, is a kind of heavenly ecstasy, then the bear is my wonderful world.
Later, the paper on the satisfaction of the score, an unintentional heart, a trip, a work in the praise, and even tasted the bitter taste still grateful to the original there is a little bit of sweetness, still with the best mind to face life in the sudden things and so on, these, at that moment, are my beautiful world.
Later, after reading the book, I felt that if we do things every day are what we want to do, what we are pursuing, so that our behavior comes from the inner drive. The sense of mission is the engine of inner recognition of this matter, this revolution and to fight for it. So that everyone can fully tap their own potential, to achieve **** the same goal, to change themselves and drive others. Thus, we understand more y the saying "Nothing is difficult in this world, only those who have the will". We need to spend more time communicating with each other, building trust, and identifying useful goals rather than trying to please, cope, and accomplish tasks.
Human nature is good, the human heart is bright, so, as a ****productivist struggler, through the company's front desk that a small group of thoughtful and dedicated citizens can change the world, do not doubt this statement, in fact, this can really change the world.
How to improve yourself and others
First, self-improvement.
Personally, I am not a very disciplined person, I can keep my word to others, but for my own things due to the lack of supervision and self-satisfaction, although I did a lot of conceptualization and planning, usually give up halfway, or even before the beginning of the abortion.
Why did you start to change yourself?
Even though I often tell myself that self-disciplined people are free. But every undisciplined person who wants to change himself is bound to be stimulated by certain people and events! Self-monitoring is a joke to me, I am y aware, but I just don't change! I have a good attitude towards introspection, I just don't do it!
A long time ago I was not satisfied with their own status quo, I want to do something different from the state of the students and colleagues around me, I envy those who have something to do, and do happy, do the fever, make achievements. But I have been in place, just stay in the "think" thing.
The arrival of the exam is always the beginning of the undisciplined. I am no exception, because this thing must be done, and there is no negotiation. Time is always the fairest of them all, bar none. The time you spend will always have an answer sheet grade back to tell you whether you tried or not. You can't run away, you can't ignore it, you can't even reassure yourself, it will come, and what you fear will come, no doubt about it!
I've been following Mr. Falcon, Mr. Li Shanglong, Mr. Ally, and the public number of the Action Partner Circle for a long time. I'm sure you're not unfamiliar with Mr. Falcon and Mr. Avery, they are my inspirations, and I started with them in terms of self-management and time management. Time is always the most fair, there is no one. Even if I read a lecture can be over a day, watching TV and brushing microblogging can be over a day, party shopping can be over a day, the study of professional knowledge can also be over a day, depending on how you want to live.
Because of the English exam time approaching forced me to start action, there is a period of time I get up at five o'clock in the morning every day to memorize the hundred words chopping words, listening to and writing fanbei English sentence. I did all of these things when I was alone, and the result of this effort was that one day my father asked me if you were in love, and I was silent, and I began to reflect on what I had done in these years that was worthwhile.
As a result, I can't think of anything, because I really haven't done anything commendable at all! The first thing I noticed was that I was not able to find a way to get to the top of the list, but I was able to find a way to get to the bottom of the list. And saw the Nanjing Action School in the group recruiting, decisively joined, also became the current Nanjing Action School public number in charge. These two things are the beginning of self change.
I like to do public, like to do quietly behind the scenes to observe others "invisible people", I love to vomit, love paragraph. In addition to my work, I find it very interesting to do public content, and I don't want to give up even when I'm very busy and tired, and I look forward to a better life, which is no longer a false self-satisfaction, but rather a heartfelt admiration for myself.
I have always thought that the work of the job must be done, because it can bring me income so that I can meet the life of the support of my fun at the same time, the test is something I have to do, three things I want to do well, one by one, one by one is too much time to waste, don't waste your time waiting for, take the initiative to attack, if you feel that you are doing things are meaningful, you will be willing to pay it all, you will have to pay a lot of money. If you feel that what you are doing is meaningful, you will willingly pay for it all, even though it is hard work!
This is the beginning of self-improvement.
The next step in self-improvement is how to drive others to improve.
This really requires perseverance to maintain your own energy and purpose. To drive others with your own frequency is not so much a matter of mutual attraction, as it is a matter of attracting partners with the same frequency to the action. Just like the core members of the NJ Action Partner Circle, it is destiny that they are able to gather together, and it is also the effect of mutual attraction of people with the same frequency.
I really like what Anon of "World Youth Speak" said: "The world is so big, it's not to see more, but to learn more, and what you've learned will leave traces on you". So at the beginning of NJAP, I chose to do public number operation because it was my hobby, and I also wanted to make another achievement in addition to my job. I want to prove that work and hobby are not conflicting, and supporting each other will make me go farther. I once wanted to show my dad a good copy to push, but he told me: you have to believe in yourself. So, I believe in myself, and I believe I will do better.
I can't say, "Everyone has to have demands on themselves," I can't attract people who are on a different frequency. I can't attract people with different frequencies, because the first thing one needs to do to change and improve oneself is to change one's self-consciousness, then one's self-awareness, and then one's self-planning. I can only say : "People should have requirements for themselves", so I have requirements for myself, requirements for the public number that I do, requirements for the content of the tweets that I do, and requirements for the layout.
Correspondingly, the small partners in the work handover also have requirements, which is not harsh, on the contrary, will allow us to do better, because we are used to each other's way of doing things, which advances the process of our work, the handover of the work is also more smooth. Adhere to the requirements, timely adjustment of inappropriate places. I can't tell you the satisfaction I felt when my work was recognized. During the period of work rotation, we attracted other partners to join us to try to do the public number, to feel the fun of doing the public number, full of words will be full of fun, full of temperature, full of feelings because of your typography, meditation design.
Believe in yourself, adhere to the requirements of things will make yourself more and more confident, like self-confidence, but also like to attract the same frequency partners of their own.
Driving others with your own behavior
What is happiness? Different families have different interpretations. There is a "foreign family" in the Four Seasons New Community of Suzhou Industrial Park, who advocate nature, love environmental protection, and live a simple life in a wealthy family. Enjoying the simple home dressed in "green", they feel very happy. They are from Singapore, Chen Rui mud and Li Liting family.
From the "heart" of environmental protection? As early as 10 years ago, through the introduction of friends, Ms. Lee Li-Ting came into contact with Tzu Chi in Taiwan, and environmental protection is one of the four major missions of Tzu Chi. Speaking of environmental protection, Ms. Lee said eloquently: "Environmental protection is not just about environmental protection, but also about environmental protection of our hearts, treating people, things, things can be with the world, put down your body, bend down to do resource recycling, so that the garbage into gold, gold into love."
Now environmental protection has become a popular vocabulary, everyone is talking about environmental protection, but many people on the concept of environmental protection only stays in the simple recycling of garbage, Li Liting, environmental protection is a "big concept", from reasonable consumption to low-carbon travel, in fact, are in the environmental protection, and even in daily life to eliminate waste is also a means of environmental protection. The means of eliminating waste in daily life is also one of the means of environmental protection.
In addition to purifying the mountains, the sea, and the earth, we must also purify our hearts. We have to cherish every single thing, so that the pure 'for the environment' becomes 'for love', which is also a kind of 'spiritual environment'."
It is because Ms. Lee understands the importance of environmental protection that she devotes herself to it and enjoys it.
Bringing the family together to protect the environment? Into Ms. Lee's home, simple and cozy arrangement, green balcony, a sense of happiness. This simple home has no gorgeous decorations, but there is a corner dedicated to "sorting" the garbage.
In addition to the home to do garbage classification, homemade "environmental enzyme" is also Li Liting home environmental "prescription". Just the remaining fruit peels, brown sugar and tap water in accordance with a certain proportion of fermentation for three months, the production of environmental protection enzymes can be used to wash dishes, scrub the floor and flush the toilet, etc., but also mosquitoes, purify the air and anti-radiation. Compared with all kinds of chemical products, the enzyme is more natural and will not cause pollution to the environment. Surprisingly, "Eco Enzyme" can actually treat skin redness, swelling, sores, and even psoriasis has a therapeutic effect.
Li Liting's husband, Mr. Chen was not very interested in environmental protection, and always think that his wife is looking for something to do, and more on his wife's enzymes quite a bit, because Ms. Li put a lot of bottles and jars in the home to make enzymes, a put is more than half a year. But a few years ago, Mr. Chen neck psoriasis, with a lot of drugs have no obvious effect. But Ms. Li actually used Eco Enzyme to cure his stubborn disease, from then on, Mr. Chen was impressed by Eco Enzyme, and also try to understand what his wife did for the environment.
Gradually, Mr. Chen began to help his wife do what she could: help classify garbage at home; save water and electricity and so on. Every week, Ms. Lee has to send the sorted and packed garbage to SISL for recycling, and Mr. Chan arranges a vehicle to send his wife there no matter how busy he is.
Under the influence of their parents, their son, Chen Jianquan, and daughter, Chen Jiaqian, have also taken action to participate in various environmental protection activities with Ms. Lee whenever they have time. The Star Harbor School, where they study, holds environmental activities every Wednesday, and the parents cooperate with the teachers to promote environmental protection, such as the harm of batteries, the importance of recycling paper and plastic bottles, and don't waste food, and so on. Because of Ms. Li's outstanding performance in environmental protection, she became one of the members of the school's environmental protection moms.
Besides at home and at school, Ms. Li also brings her children along when she participates in community environmental activities. The Green Pioneer Station, an environmental organization in the Four Seasons community, organizes environmental campaigns once or twice a year, in which Ms. Lee and her children are actively involved.
Let more people participate in environmental protection? "I would love to drive more people to change and make them realize the deeper connotation and value behind environmental protection." To drive people around you to participate in environmental protection, we need to let them benefit from environmental protection first. Eco Enzyme is the fastest and most popular, so Li Liting actively publicize the various functions of Eco Enzyme to the people around her, and Suzhou TV's "Look at 12:00" program was also attracted to her.
After tasting the "sweetness", people around her have to ask Ms. Li for this magical enzyme formula. To improve the environment, there are many things that can be done, water conservation, do not use disposable tableware and plastic bags, family smoking ban and a variety of green plants and so on. Ms. Lee with the most simple, easy to implement method to everyone "sales" of environmental protection, unknowingly, around her gathered a group of friends who are keen on environmental protection.
In addition to actively promoting proper environmental concepts to more people and families in her own community of Four Seasons, Li Liting, as one of the representatives of the "foreign Suzhou", also actively promotes environmental protection to people outside the country. She knows that the Singapore International School of Foreign Languages has a special garbage collection station, as long as there are new acquaintances around the "foreigners", she spared no effort to recommend them, and called on them to work together to protect the environment.
Ms. Lee's family is paying for environmental protection, engaging in environmental protection with love, and enjoying the green life brought by environmental protection, which is their happiness.