In the afternoon, the last patient, Sister Wang, gave a lively class to advanced students, graduate students and doctoral students in Mr. Ruan's clinic. Sister Wang is over 50 years old and looks skinny. She told director Ruan about her illness and her anger. A few years ago, her husband made a lot of money in the sea, which really responded to the saying that "men get worse when they have money". Her husband has a mistress outside.
Sister Wang is a political worker and a man of the hour in the unit. Her career was smooth sailing, but this man's affair made her feel like a failure. For a woman, career success does not mean that she can really be happy, but family life is the source of her happiness. No matter how hard Sister Wang tried to persuade, even her daughter came forward to negotiate with her father's little lover, there was no way to make the man change his mind and let the third party give up this doomed love. After five years of beating and cursing, Sister Wang finally divorced her husband.
After that, Sister Wang fell into depression, often suffered from insomnia, cried alone and regretted divorcing her husband. She watched the students in Mr. Ruan's consulting room begin to talk endlessly. She said: "Don't divorce easily in the future. Men will always go home when they are tired after playing for a few years. The world belongs to men, and men can find girls in their twenties at the age of 80. This society also has money. As long as it is rich, it will be a ghost. An old man can find a lot of young and beautiful girls as long as he has money. " Listen to nguyen's students one leng one leng.
Alas, poor menopausal woman, paranoid woman. In fact, you can live well without a man! Why ruin the happiness of the rest of your life for a man who has moved on? I watched her cry for a while, resent for a while, and be as excited as chicken blood. It is estimated that she has been poisoned by menopause. Teacher Ruan prescribed estradiol gel to supplement estrogen and taught her to apply it herself. Her crazy behavior scared me to death. I'm afraid to follow in its footsteps and want to start applying this magical medicine as soon as possible!
In fact, I am a happy woman, and my husband almost doesn't care about anything at home. He bought me train tickets and air tickets, and he booked me hotels, rooms and so on. Because I have a poor sense of direction, I often get lost alone, so I often take me out to travel. I'm used to luxury. When my salary runs out, I ask my husband for it. Even though I am such an impossible woman, my position in the family is still quite high. When I say east, he will never go west.
I'm going out to study for more than a year. At first, I was worried that I could hardly live without my husband! I don't know. It's been four months. I feel at home in the big city and have a good time. I just arrived in Beijing in September. Just over 20 days. I have made many friends in the postgraduate dormitory of Beijing Maternity Hospital and the hospital, and our visiting scholars in Enshi will get together every opportunity.
The day before yesterday, three visiting scholars from different industries in Enshi got together happily. Both of them are more than ten years younger than me, but we get along well together. A handsome young man is from the Academy of Agricultural Sciences. He studied crops, developed agricultural products and did many scientific experiments. Another little beauty is the department director of TV station, studying big data research. We talked about our own research direction and future study goals. When we all want to go home from school, we can bring the most advanced ideas and technologies of the capital back to our hometown, so that we can become seeds and plant them on the land of Enshi, take root and sprout, blossom and bear fruit, and benefit Enshi folks.
Today, after work, I invited Jin Mei from Hebei and Zhao Xiaomei from Inner Mongolia to go to Tiananmen Square to see the night scene. When I came to the square, the sunset on the horizon dyed the whole sky red, and the square was illuminated by colorful lights. The Tiananmen Gate under the setting sun and lights is very beautiful. The flowers and red flags in the square let us feel the warm festive atmosphere on the eve of the motherland's birthday, and a My People，My Country melody has been echoing in our hearts. The crowds in the square are full of smiles and are happy for the new era of our great motherland.
We went to the alley near Tiananmen Square to eat snacks. Zhao Xiaomei is studying in Beijing and is very good at Beijing snacks. She told me that the most famous foods in Beijing are Beijing fried belly and Beijing roast duck. When it comes to the oldest and most prosperous snacks in Beijing, tripe is definitely one of the best. It takes exquisite ingredients, plus the unique practices and seasonings of old Beijing, and makes a delicious snack through exquisite craftsmanship. One bite is crisp and two bites are fresh, which is really memorable!
I am also very comfortable and happy when I am wandering outside. I can enjoy this wonderful world without a husband, enjoy the time with friends and enjoy the pleasure brought by delicious food. We can still have fun without men! Women should never bet their happiness and happiness on men, but learn to fall in love with themselves.
Have you ever thought that you actually have many advantages, even sometimes you can't find them? You just need to have a spiritual love with yourself as you did when you were in love, and keep looking for your own advantages to make yourself younger, more beautiful and more confident. Women in love are the most beautiful! What does it matter if no one loves themselves? Love yourself more, and life will be more elegant.
If you can fall in love with yourself, this is the most reliable and free. You will never leave yourself, never betray yourself, and never hurt yourself. This kind of lover can go in and out, be at arm's length, be cute and resentful, and get together without separation. This is an everlasting lover.
You should love yourself, live for yourself and be happy for yourself. Your personality suits you best, your appearance is unique, even if your body is bloated or poor, it will not hinder your inner fullness and beauty. Because you are living honestly, you are working hard, you are supporting yourself, and you are enjoying the happiness provided by society. You go to sleep with a clear conscience every night with the company of the stars and the moon, and greet another ordinary and fulfilling day in the morning light.
Be happy for yourself, because your efforts have achieved some results; Laugh for yourself, because you have walked through mud, mountains, rivers and too many hardships, and learned to face everything in life calmly and calmly; Cheer for yourself and be happy for your ordinary and fulfilling life! You are the soul mate you have been looking for. You are a unique firework in the world. Even when you are old, there are still people who love your pilgrim soul and the painful wrinkles on your aging face. That person is yourself. Love yourself! This is the greatest and most sincere love in the world!
Yes, what I want to say is to love yourself! You can live well without a man! Live your confidence and excitement! Live your happiness and happiness! I believe you are the most beautiful existence in the world! Only those who love themselves can truly love others, and those who know how to love can finally get real happiness! May all gentle women in the world fall in love with themselves. Even if a man leaves you one day, you can live well and not let him take away the clouds in your heart.