When I went home for New Year's Eve, when I saw my parents' gray hairs on their temples gradually increasing, when my parents said, "You're no longer a child," when I saw my parents' bodies no longer as healthy as they were before, and even gradually needed me to take care of them, I realized that I had grown up. This is when I realized that I had "grown up" and was no longer relying on my parents' shoulders, and that my own shoulders would become my parents' shoulders.
When I was afraid to do things, I realized I had grown up.
When I was young, I had the vigor of a newborn calf, and although I would make mistakes and get scolded, I always got more and more courageous. When we grow up, we avoid low-level mistakes, but we don't have the courage to start.
If you are sick, don't dare to carry on, because there are still people who need us to take care of; send a circle of friends, to consider who will be seen, parents will not be worried if they see it, friends will not laugh if they see it, and so on, a lot of things are no longer so obsessive, and no longer so sure, and even more afraid of making a mistake, began to be afraid of, because I think some of the mistakes can't be undone.
When a person realizes that he or she has grown up, there are a few things:
1, at dinner time, my father would pour me a glass of wine.
2. Suddenly, one day, I realized that the person I had relied on had become the person I wanted to protect.
3. When you encounter a problem, the first thing you think of is not to complain or cry, but how to solve it.
No longer as before, a little aggrieved to find someone to talk to, or in the circle of friends, qq space to vent a pass.
More often than not, they hide their heart and solve the problem alone.
4, the day is cold, will take the initiative to put on the fall pants when.
5. My parents would come to ask my opinion before making a major decision.
Previously, I thought this kind of power of speech was quite enviable, but I realized that it was not power, but responsibility.
6. When my father began to talk to me about his uncertainty and anxiety.
7, no longer keen on chasing stars, see favorite stars will not have the feeling of screaming.
You know in your heart that only you are the protagonist of life, and others are just clouds in the sky.
8. You will not publicize all over the world before you do something.
Not afraid of other people do not know, but behind the scenes to secretly work, and then surprised everyone.
9, generous recognition of others, do not begrudge their own praise. For example, now double-click the screen and immediately unlock a hidden feature.
10, dare to take responsibility, will not run away from the problem.
You know very well how much responsibility that "dad" sound has.
11. It's New Year's Eve, and there's no more "New Year's money".
12, began to deliberately improve themselves.