With the rapid development of the economy, the social requirements of women are increasingly high, before only the positioning of women as a housewife, but the modern society, compared to the previous positioning of women's roles in the requirements are gradually increased, it seems that the contemporary redefinition of the modern woman must be down to the kitchen, out of the hall, on the big stage! (PS: The stage here is not the stage of the nightclub, but the formal important occasions, refers to the test of women's eloquence, adaptability, emotional intelligence ability and other comprehensive ability of the metaphor)
? On the one hand, the change of the role of the definition of women, with the other hand, the economy continues to develop, the divorce rate is also increasing year by year, some time ago, the Ministry of Civil Affairs released the latest statistics of marriage and divorce big data. As soon as the data was released, it triggered a hot debate on the whole network.In 2020, China's marriage registration data was 8,131,000 pairs, and after falling below the 10 million pairs mark in 2019, this time it fell below the 9 million mark. Not only is the number of marriages at a 17-year low, but the divorce rate is also rising year after year. This means more and more people are reluctant to get married. At least single can maintain their own quality of life, but married naturally reduce their own quality of life, on the marriage and career dilemma is the vast majority of single women constantly wandering, constantly thinking, constantly choosing the important problem!
? A marriage is a mandatory course for women
? From ancient times to the present, women have the characteristics of reproduction of the next generation, marriage is inevitable, but also a necessary course of life, some women have been married early, to complete the major events of life, there are people who married later, wandering in the career and marriage, marriage is sooner or later to experience an important threshold, the advantages of choosing a spouse before the age of 30 years old than 30 years of age after the choice of a spouse is more than a few women once more than 30 years of age, to choose another half! Once a woman is over 30, her chances of choosing another half are gradually less because men tend to be younger in choosing their spouses. In addition, the younger the woman is, the better she recovers after giving birth to a baby! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you need.
? Two career is the cornerstone of the female push to success
30-year-old single woman with their own economic strength, not to mention whether or not there is to buy a house and a car, the deposit is certain to have a balance, for the marriage hall, marriage, children, is bound to women's income has a little bit of an impact, where the women who have experienced the marriage of the birth of a child should have a deep understanding of the many single women who want to squeeze through the minds of the rich and powerful, but it is so easy to squeeze through the minds of the rich and powerful, but it is so easy to squeeze through the minds of the rich and powerful, but it is so easy to squeeze through the minds of the rich and powerful. But is it so easy to squeeze? Life is a mess of firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy and vinegar, after marriage, women need to have their own business, is also said to be financially independent, only financial independence, it is not so easy to be eliminated, coupled with the housewife to do a good job, may not be someone said good, but instead of the family's point of view is taken for granted, but have their own business is not the same, at least have their own in addition to the family outside of the circle, to be able to have their own independent socialization. Even if the marriage does not work, there is still their own business to protect themselves! According to the divorce data in previous years, there is a career of married women than no career of married women abandoned the proportion of quite a bit less, and there is a career of married women's quality of life index will also increase a lot.
Three: Career and love are a win-win situation
? The previous has been mentioned career and marriage are equally important, one cannot do without the other, but along with economic development, but also bring us different degrees of pressure, some people think that single is quite good, some people think that there is a marriage, after marriage in October, looking at their own children day by day to grow up is also very pleasant, so each person pursues the differences in lifestyle leads to many people now late marriage and late parenthood, housewife is not so easy to do, see the Romantic Journey" Cheng Lisha is a good example, after marriage, no work of their own, do a bland housewife once suffered from depression, the synthesis of the above mentioned, 30 years old, whether married or career, are equally important, as there are gains must be lost, since you have chosen the salted fish, then you have to accept it salty, and what things are relative, there is no absolute, and in the career and marriage are not conflicting, it is the pursuit of the best, and the most important thing is that you have to accept it. There is no conflict between career and marriage. If you are at the age to pursue love, don't think about it and boldly go for it. As for work, there will be plenty of time for that, won't there? I wish all the women in the world to ride the waves and accomplish their goals in life as soon as possible!