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Star is premature, once born in the incubator lived in a whole half a month, so the whole family is very careful to protect the stars.

When I was a child, my grandmother was afraid of being hungry and cold, so I fed and ate until I was more than three years old and bought something I wanted to eat.

Star was spoiled by her grandmother from a young age and was white and fat. By first grade, she weighed nearly 80 pounds.

Grandma is very spoiled, usually very little to say. The class was a little timid and scared.

Star on the 2nd grade when the grandmother got sick and died.

Star's dad and mom both work. Well at home is very close to the school, mom let the stars home by themselves, mom in the morning at home cooking, directly home to her to eat.

Put 20 dollars in your body every day. If you don't want to eat what mom and dad cook, you can buy something to eat outside.

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Star buys things from the kiosk outside the school every day after school. As a result, senior student Xiao Wang sets her sights on Star and begins to test the waters in hopes that Star will give her something to eat first.

Gradually, the students' appetites grew and they searched for all of Star's money every day afterward.

One day, Wang said he wanted to buy toys to spend more than 100 yuan, stars home to give him 200 yuan.

Star's mom and dad were worried that he was wasting it and only gave him $20 a day.

Wang threatened to spend $200 of Star's money, and Star's mom and dad gave her only $20 a day. And every day that $20 was taken by Little King.

Star had no choice but to tell her mom that she wanted $200.

Mom wondered what her own child was doing paying so much money when the teacher went straight to the parents if the class had to pay anything.

Later, the mother and her daughter in-depth communication, only to know that the child in the school peer campus was bullied, they used to buy things for the child's money most of the money was taken by this classmate.

The mother was so enraged at her child's words that she almost wanted to run out and find the other parent!

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However, in the blink of an eye, the mother remembered an incident in Nanjing a few days ago when a small child was given to beat up an old man. The doctor at that hospital had acted on impulse and had since been suspended, and it was no use for the parents to come to the house and apologize.

The opportunity was actually the child who bullied the hospital doctor's child at school.

The mother calmed down now. It was just as well that the father came home. The mother told the father about it with righteous indignation.

The mother said. "I want to carry a knife to the other family's house. My daughter has been bullied for so long. I don't. My heart really hurts.

The dad said: 'Calm down, I'll deal with this.'

The father also chose law in his college days, so he knew that this matter of his child had to be dealt with in a hurry. Otherwise, it will affect the child's mental health in the long run.

This matter to find the other parent is also useless, easy to conflict, and easy to find teachers to become important.

Smart dad will play three tricks, very capable, very properly deal with the child's school bullying incident of the first trick: take the evidence

Dad gave his own recorder to the child, so that the child before school to open the recorder.

By noon, that Mr. Wang will surely come to his child, during which the conversation between the two can be recorded!

Don't let your child have a conflict with the other person. Because at this point, if the other person hits their daughter, the daughter will fight back, illogically.

It's been over a month since my son started school. You're looking for my bag to get $20 a day. That's nearly $1000 a ****. Not enough to buy toys?

The $200 is what I told my dad I was going to buy my own stationery.

Mr. Wang heard the fierce words, "You spend $20 a day to do what for, I eat snacks, $200 immediately give me, you buy what toys let mom buy on the line!

The second move: start alarm characterization

The reason why the father let his daughter so and Wang students, because the "Chinese People's **** and the State Criminal Law" Article 274 has the crime of extortion, multiple extortion, then, there is a possibility of sentenced to imprisonment or control. This is actually against the law.

This is no longer a school bullying incident!

So the father started to call 110. When he reported the case, the child said that he had been extorted and blackmailed many times at school, and asked the police to make sure that the other party was held legally responsible.

Wang is not yet 16 years old, the father asked to pursue the other party's law and order responsibility for the other parents.

The third method: negotiate with the other parent

The children who carry out bullying in school are often related to parental tutelage, some parents usually little control over their children, and some parents take pride in bullying their own children who are not bullied at school.

As a result, of the parents of children who are bullied at school, even if they look for the parents of children who commit bullying at school, often do not do a good job, and the other parent is full of concern, saying, "That's just the way my child is. He's been rude since he was a kid and I can't control it.

This time there is no evidence, it is indeed very troublesome!

But if the case is taken by the police, the parents have recorded evidence, and the star's father said the child repeatedly extorted his own children, violating the criminal law.

The parents would be nervous knowing that their child's life would be almost ruined if he went to a juvenile home!

Then, at the police station, Xiao Wang's parents and Xiaoxing's parents went face to face to talk about the matter, and finally asked Xiao Wang and his parents to write a pledge to avoid harassing Xiaoxing.

If a similar incident occurs, Star's father can reserve the right to pursue the matter legally.

Then, I will return all the money I used to take from Star.

School bullying is really close to home.

According to the China Education Tracking Survey designed and implemented by the China Survey and Data Center of Renmin University of China, 10,279 first-year students from 112 urban and rural schools in 28 districts and counties across the country were sampled for an annual tracking survey from 2014, and it was found that nearly half of the students suffered from verbal violence.

For example, being scolded by classmates, saying unpleasant words, being nicknamed by classmates, being ridiculed by classmates in public, and being intimidated by classmates.

In addition, 17.4 percent of school bullies were hit or kicked.

The China Judicial Big Data Institute also conducted a study on school violence and found that from 2015 to 2017, 57.5 percent of school violence was intentional injuries.

So, school bullying is all around us, and it can happen to our children. By knowing some ways to deal with it beforehand, we won't panic when it happens and can better protect our children.

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