A woman completely dead hearted can not be undone 1
A really love you girls, you completely dead hearted, it is often difficult to break the mirror to reunite.
On the contrary, it is those who do not care enough in the relationship, not much investment in the girl, easier to tolerate and forgive.
Because the latter consider more of a practical problem: such as leaving you alone will not be lonely? The quality of life will not be reduced? The reality is that there are more problems, more trade-offs, and it's easier to get by with one eye open and one eye closed, so naturally it's easier to get back in.
And the former consider only the feelings themselves - her feelings are hurt, it is difficult to re-establish trust, it is difficult to pretend that nothing has happened as fully committed.
Even if they get back together, the girl has always had a scar on her heart. It seems to be peaceful, only she knows in her heart that it is difficult to go back to the beginning.
Instead of letting her completely die and then spend all the effort to repair the relationship, it is better to guard her feelings from the beginning.
So, in what ways are girls more likely to accumulate disappointment in their relationships?
1, everything is not always let her alone to digest, she figured out, you basically cool.
Boys and girls solve problems in different modes of thinking, boys are rational: he needs to determine the objective degree of seriousness of the situation, and immediately find ways to solve. Will not be able to jump in thought, and will not give themselves more drama.
Girls, on the other hand, tend to get caught up in emotional whirlpools. Maybe the objective problem is not big, but her emotional reaction is enough to make her through the beginning and end of the whole relationship is worth it, this time, she is actually very hopeful to get the boyfriend's comfort and understanding.
On the surface, the more she looks, the more she needs her boyfriend.
But boys tend to demand girls by their own standards, forcing them to self-digest with cold war and coercion. The girl in the process, often to boys "do not care about their feelings" as the reason, do not want to put forward their own needs, while forcing themselves to understand, used to cater to your needs, but also instinctively disappointment and sadness, accumulation of grievances and dissatisfaction.
2, girls are very wary of the animal, before any payment or compromise, they need to trust you enough.
You'll notice a pattern: in biology, it's almost always the males who take the initiative first, with the females following closely behind.
That's why guys always have to pursue and give first, to show their sincerity, and get through the girl's tests and temptations before they can get together.
The same is true for the two of you - girls are always generous and selfless, but only if they trust you enough to believe that you're really worth it.
But a lot of guys don't get this, as if they can just let go and be fine once the relationship is established. In other words, they can't fulfill the responsibilities and obligations of an ideal boyfriend, but demand everything from the girl.
The girl will usually do, but you have to be clear, she is not out of the initiative and instinct, but more just out of the catering and pleasing, and catering and pleasing itself will make people tired of aggravation.
So, if you want to have a smooth relationship, you should step back and compromise, and the girls won't let you down; on the other hand, the girls will only squeeze the grievances, and you'll have to say that she's stingy.
3, details can kill love, disappointment is a little bit of accumulation
For adults, often entangled in the details of the seemingly small-minded.
So, almost no one likes to grab the details every day to amplify things. But in love, it's these details that make up a girl's sense of security and judgment.
They don't talk about it, not that they don't care, they just advise themselves: look away, don't think too much.
So, every time you don't care about them, they can get by, every time you have a bad attitude, they can take the initiative to seek peace, every time you hang on to them, they are in the self-help.
But time and time again, they can not be disappointed, they can not deceive themselves to believe in the illusion forever.
So she'll break up with you over a small thing, not because it hurts, but because the patience bar is full and it's time for them to leave.
4, to cherish her love for you, rather than bullying, mistakenly thought to be their own charm
You can easily hurt her, can let her for you to turn over, can let her for you to give up all, not because of your charm, but because she loves you, that's all.
Her love for you is the source of all your aura, you're not a shih tzu, you're just a shih tzu in her eyes.
When she withdraws this love, you will then become ordinary and mediocre.
5, don't be stingy with your expression, love her should let her feel
From the big data, compared to the purpose of strong boys, most girls are still more prone to rely on feelings to bring their own spiritual pleasure.
They are in love with feelings, the process, and spiritual ****ing. They care more about how deep you love, how true, even if the two sides of the personality does not match, love to kill each other, and even in the process she suffered a lot of torture, but as long as she is sure that you are enough to love her, she is willing to go through the thick and thin for you, to make the best of it.
So, girls are more understanding of love, but also more likely to become a saint in love, naturally more need to be nourished and treated well.
They need to feel your expression more, and need your constant reminder and appeasement.
A woman completely dead heart can not be undone 2
When a woman's heart is dead, nine times out of ten will become this look
Anything is in the middle of the change, time will change a lot of things. The feelings are even more elusive, a person who loves you again, if you can not get your response for a long time, you can not see hope in you, but also will silently put away the expectations, you die heart.
The fading of feelings is not all of a sudden, but when a person has saved enough for you to disappointment, all of your expectations into the empty, but also on the dead heart.
You should know that there is no greater sorrow than the death of the heart, when a person is dead to you, by and large, can no longer be undone, is a nine head of cattle can not be pulled back.
Once upon a time, she fantasized about the future with you, and you are dedicated to you, in order to you she is willing to change their shortcomings, willing to fall in love with the whole world, but your performance, little by little to consume her enthusiasm.
When there is only consumption left in the feelings, sooner or later, will burn off all the enthusiasm, once that a glance of a thousand years of people, but became no longer willing to mention the bleak, only silence.
The emotional thing changed is changed, when a person's heart is dead, it will become this look, is no longer redeemable.
Even the fight is not willing to quarrel, become unusually silent
Once she was in front of you, always a lively and lovely look, you always get along with each other vivid and interesting, and even sometimes temperament, but also seems to be very interesting, she pouted, waiting for you to comfort and coax.
But I don't know when, such a lively and mischievous little cute, in front of you to become speechless, which is swallowed during the big aggression.
When a woman is not willing to talk to you, not even willing to fight with you, that she is really hurt, want to stop in time, you are no longer the one she wants to talk to, but also not the first thing she wants to seek help.
In the beginning, you can be her day, there are things will tell you, always love and you want to attract your attention, but your...
The first time, you can be her day, there are things will tell you, always love and you want to attract your attention. Indifference and neglect, shattered her enthusiasm, let her feel self-esteem damaged, let her feel to the bull.
More enthusiasm, always be splashed cold water, will also be cooled off, feelings of a person's perseverance, is like self-indulgence, is a joke, she decided to force herself to put down.
In the face of the past, like a dream, was splashed with cold water more, also woke up, from now on she is your unattainable people, you can no longer restore her.
The previous enthusiasm and tenderness have disappeared, replaced by indifference
A person's pay, is the need to respond to the energy to continue to maintain, if it is always a person's one-man show, is always being consumed, never been nourished, then sooner or later, the relationship will be over.
In the beginning of the relationship, she will give you all the enthusiasm, you are considerate, you feel the unprecedented tenderness, then you are her world.
Nowadays, she is only indifferent to you, see you with no see is the same, to your things are not heard, because she has forced themselves to see the reality, do not want to love themselves in a person, invest their valuable time and energy.
A person from the enthusiasm to indifference, from thoughtful to exclude you, is hurt by how much, only to have the wake-up call ah, you love her back, will eventually return to your own body.
A person into this state, it is really cold, tired of the heart, there will be such a determination, to stop wasting time on a person who does not love and cherish their own, between you is really no play.
Always think of relying on you before, now is strong and independent
Being favored by the people are always emboldened, once she thought of relying on you, always willing to immerse themselves in the castle of love, there is no sense of crisis, a lot of things will not be a rainy day.
Someone can rely on the woman, of course, can be so capricious, just want to do what they like, become the person they want to be, with another person's bottom, more confident and courageous.
But when a woman realizes that the man in front of her is not worth relying on, it will become a sense of crisis, no longer put all their hopes in men, and will force themselves to be strong and independent, began to become a one-man show.
Someone can rely on, who would like to show off, but once you realize that the man in front of you can not be relied upon, you will begin to die, forcing yourself to grow, all the expectations will return to their own body, what things will be pro-activity, growth rate is particularly fast.
A former willingness to rely on your small woman, into a strong independent woman, it is clear that you are excluded, since you can not rely on, she will only be able to rely on their own.
A woman completely dead heart can not be undone 3
A woman is dead to you can be undone
1, girlfriend why you will be dead to you
In the relationship, it is to be a man to take the woman to *** with the maintenance of the relationship, once the feelings of the rupture, the man will have no excuse. Once the relationship breaks down, the man can not shirk the responsibility, so when the relationship problems, as a man must first reflect on their own, is your bad, or you are too much ego, or that you simply do not understand what the other side needs, etc., to find out the other side of the heart of the reasons for you to die, before you can solve the problem so that you have the opportunity to succeed in salvaging.
2, change yourself
Men must not be macho, chores are not divided into men and women, and there is no one who stipulates that chores must be done by women, women can do chores, but why can't men do chores, so you want to restore a woman's heart, you have to do a first to help their girlfriends to share the chores. Also have a sense of responsibility. If you change yourself, the woman will naturally feel that you are very reliable, but also feel that you really changed
Naturally, you will look at you differently, slowly will want to return to your side. But one very important thing you must not change because of a moment, after today and tomorrow back to the old, and then change, I believe that this situation over and over again, that a woman can stand your toss again and again, when her heartache has been to the extreme, that also completely give up on you.
Second, how long after the breakup is easy to get back together
1, a week
If the two break up a week, the majority of this relationship has not come out, so the chance of getting back together at this time is relatively large, you just need to coax the other side, and say some sweet words. The other side, and say some sweet words, usually can still win her back.
2, 5 months
A love talk for a long time, the beginning of the separation is likely to be very uncomfortable, mainly because you are too long no single, but after a few months of adaptation, you will feel that their lives are missing something, and will also be found in the beginning is purely because of the feelings of the relationship and together, and therefore in this time the possibility of compounding is also higher. The likelihood of getting back together is also higher at this time.
Why your girlfriend will die on you
A relationship, it is necessary for the man to lead the woman to *** with the maintenance of the relationship, and the feelings of the break, the man can not be shirked responsibility. So when the relationship problems and even rupture, as a man should be the most important thing is to reflect on their own, is their own reasons, leading to the other side of their own bottom of the measurement of the dead heart, no longer have any hope. Is your bad temper, or you are too much self, or you do not understand what the other side really need and so on. The reason for the death of the other side of the heart, in order to solve the problem, there is a chance to salvage the success.
Two, change yourself
Don't be chauvinistic, housework is not divided into men and women, who stipulates that housework is necessarily a woman should do things, housework is a woman's natural mission. Women can do housework, why can't men do housework. If you want to win back a woman's heart, you need to be a responsible person who helps his girlfriend share the housework. If you change yourself, the woman will feel that you can rely on, will feel that you are really changed, will look at you differently, she will want to return to your side.
But there is a very important point, you do not want to change on a moment's notice, do not change today, tomorrow is the same old, and then change, after a few days, or after a period of time is to change back to the previous state. Has been such a back and forth, in fact, a woman's heart can stand once, but can not stand once and for all the toss, when she heartache to the extreme, will not come back at all.