1, 2020, Zhihu, Weibo and Hupu teamed up, in the form of netizen voting, according to big data, the latest integration of the "2020 netizen vote on life's top ten regrets and troubles". Nearly 37 million people participated in it, and every vote came from netizens.
Top 10 regrets of 2020: Noise from upstairs/neighborhood/street noise, with 8,019,000 votes.
From the above information, we know that no matter the economic pressure, work, disease, marriage, etc., are not as bad as the trouble caused by noise.
And of all the types of noise, it is upstairs noise that is the most disturbing. So what you're currently suffering from is not an isolated case, but a common phenomenon today. For this reason I have also formed a noise group, in which almost all the people who are bothered by neighborhood noise are spouting off about upstairs noise.
Next problem solving: how to solve upstairs noise?
1, first understand the root cause of upstairs noise.
Many people say that upstairs noise, but why is it just not good to solve it? Let's understand the type of noise upstairs: walking, dragging tables and chairs, children running around at home, and overdoing it a little bit by shooting balls and jumping rope at home. Most of these sounds are in fact normal home life produced by the sound, you say it is noise, but upstairs people do not recognize, because in his view: I am in their own homes, but also can not normal activities?
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This has led to the problem falling into a kind of Rashomon, each standing in their own point of view to think about the problem, there is no one who is right and who is wrong. So, you go to casually say let her house a little quieter usually can not solve the problem, communication is not good, but let the upstairs heart disgusted, the noise intensified. Read a case, the upstairs living group tenants, downstairs young man is an introverted, unsociable people. When he went upstairs to communicate with the noise, the upstairs does not recognize, the young man finally got angry and took a knife to the door, and finally led to a criminal case. So how to communicate properly is the key to solving the noise upstairs, as will be said later.
The root cause lies in the floor thickness. Now the floor thickness standard in our country is able to keep in 10cm can be qualified, the next line 8cm, plus 2.5m layer height, you and your neighbors upstairs close to the same as relatives, not family like family. My home upstairs is, talking, cursing, teaching children to read I can hear clearly, if the object hit the floor, this vibration sound can also be expanded by the ceiling. In fact, very necessary noise, such as cooking, washing machine, etc., can also occasionally tolerate a moment, especially upstairs stomping, running for no reason, that kind of noise made because of low literacy will be more difficult to bear, because in hundreds of years of cultural cultivation, the sound and the character of the person also has a positive relationship.
2, how to solve the noise upstairs
①Correct communication. How to do friendly communication is the most important first step to solve the noise, many people are in the first step did not do a good job leading to neighborhood conflicts more and more serious. First of all, you have to determine the source of the noise does come from upstairs, and then put down their own right to be the identity of the victim (think of it this way always let you tone with a prick), from the root cause you know, the developer's problems lead to the floor boards are too thin, and the upstairs do not want to be so, and he did not understand the acoustic renovation, and he did not know that their own home noise affects you. So you need to ask the question first to let him know what you are suffering from. What I did was to record a video of the noise from his house, then go upstairs to him and say: Excuse me Neighbor, I'm from downstairs in your house, I've been hearing this noise every night lately (show her the video), I don't know if it's from your house, the soundproofing of our building may not be very good, can it be a little bit lighter, we're all upstairs and downstairs, let's understand each other, ah.
After saying this first, he knew in his heart the actual problem, if there are children at home, you can also send some climbing mats, soft bottom slippers to solve the problem. Anyway, the first principle is that the first few times of communication can not go with a temper, to soft to find the same feeling, even if the establishment of friendship. Normal people more or less pay attention to a little. This will at least be able to avoid if the original noise is not resolved, but also will not let him intensify deliberately retaliate.
②Noise desensitization. I have also seen a case, upstairs home all the tables and chairs are affixed to the mute post, but also control the home of the children do not let run, everywhere is very careful to reduce the noise, but the downstairs is still unforgiving, upstairs and even installed in the home of the monitoring, so that downstairs to hear the noise to see the monitoring comparison, but the downstairs do not want to listen to but also to install a vibrator to retaliate. This situation can not be said to be a problem upstairs, too much noise sensitivity of the people themselves have problems, life can not be no sound. Noise sensitivity is particularly sensitive to a certain kind of sound, and sometimes deliberately listen to it, we have to control their own brain, will focus on diversion, do some chores, listen to music, exercise, exercise, and more to please themselves, do not waste their time listening to other people's noise, this process should be practiced over a long period of time, time and time again, you will find that you are more and more able to control their hearing, do other things can be more focused.
③Soundproofing renovation. Many people feel that soundproofing renovation is not necessary, and it is useless for us to say it a hundred times painstakingly. Soundproofing renovation is the building acoustic substandard auxiliary measures, in fact, the best way to solve the noise upstairs is to do the floor active soundproofing and vibration damping: the basic floor + leveling + the appropriate thickness of the vibration damping pads + protective layer of cement sand + ground decoration (wood flooring, marble, etc.). Doing so will allow to reduce the noise impact downstairs, which is more convenient, cost-effective and useful than downstairs to do the ceiling. But here involves the human nature of thinking about others in the emotional **** Ming, few people will be for others to trouble themselves, but in fact, this can also liberate their own behavior, because then downstairs will not come every day to find you to communicate with you, that you have low literacy.
Soundproofing decoration is now still a new industry, many do not understand the home improvement of soundproofing decoration, and sell acoustic products generally do not do soundproofing decoration, soundproofing decoration are from the original renovation, so we have to be aware of our own, do not because of the choice of the present lead to later live in peace of mind.