A big data experiment in the United States, "Longitudinal Learning in Early Childhood", selected more than 20,000 children as samples to track the study and life from kindergarten to fifth grade of primary school.
It also investigates and sorts out their family economic situation, parents' education level, parents' way of disciplining their children and family members' communication style.
Through a series of data, the study draws a conclusion: whether a child can achieve something in the future does not lie in IQ. Four families are more likely to produce talents, and children from these families are more likely to be excellent.
1) Parents have high academic qualifications and high IQ.
Everyone knows the influence of education on a person, but parents with higher education are more likely to cultivate excellent talents, which many people have not noticed.
His parents' high academic qualifications can prove that he has a high IQ and profound knowledge. This kind of person has a better angle and method of thinking than ordinary people.
These highly educated and intelligent people form families, attach great importance to children's education, and the educational methods are more scientific.
Secondly, as we all know, IQ is also hereditary. A high IQ and a high-quality education will make the children from the family very good.
2) Rich economic conditions
"Money is not everything, but you can't do anything without money." Successful parents are smart and agile.
Not only that, rich economic conditions can give children more educational opportunities, and the differences in knowledge and social circle will also vary with different family economic conditions.
In the "parents' language", in the family with higher economic status, the language that parents communicate with their children is more positive and positive, and the children will develop in the direction that their parents speak better.
Therefore, social and economic status represents a person's success, and under such education, children will be even better if they are exposed to this success.
3) Parents are self-motivated and strive to improve themselves.
Lifelong learning is the pursuit and belief of many people. Such parents will keep enough self-motivated whether they are studying or raising their children. In the process of getting along with children, they will use * * * to learn the model of * * * progress.
In a subtle way, it sets an example for children and lets them know that they need to keep learning to make progress. So as a parent, inexperience is not a problem. The real question is whether you are willing to learn and change.
"Knowledge determines fate". Only by constantly learning, improving oneself and improving the way of education can we make progress and grow up with our children step by step.
4) Rich family books, good reading habits and strong learning atmosphere.
Books are the ladder of human progress, and this famous saying is not out of date in contemporary times.
It was rated as the most beautiful family in China on 20 19, with a collection of 60,000 books. As a rural child, Ma Lixian attaches great importance to the collection and reading of books.
This concept and behavior deeply influenced Ma Lixian's growth and made him an excellent writer.
For a family, the richness of books and parents' love for reading have a great influence on children. Under the influence of such a family environment, children will naturally regard reading as a pleasure.
The growth of children depends not only on schools and teachers, but also on families and parents.
Whether a child can grow into an excellent person depends largely on family education. Therefore, in terms of education, parents should constantly improve their own ways and apply the essence of big data to daily education, then the future of children must be expected.