1, to find a suitable environment for you: may be extroverted people will meet in the party, party want to meet friends, but introverts are more inclined to small groups of socializing, perhaps in the hobby groups, like-minded volunteer groups, you establish a relationship with the first step will be easier to take a little bit, in a relatively comfortable environment, meet the opposite sex is relatively not so easy to be nervous.

2. Remember that all conversations start with small talk: for introverts, in-depth discussions are often easier than small talk. But all conversations should start with a little bit of small talk, and remember that all small talk has a purpose, so lowering your expectations of it may ease your burden of conversation.

3, first as a netizen is also good: introverts are more inclined to put the "real self-image" in the virtual social; and extroverts are more willing to show their real selves in the face-to-face traditional social. Therefore, introverts on the one hand can have a social function of the online community to meet new friends; on the other hand, you can also try online dating, preferred platform, strict supervision, real-name authentication, security is guaranteed, greatly guaranteeing the safety of the user, such as a companion, only marriage, light love, cherry blossom marriage app is very reliable. It brings together a lot of single people of the opposite sex who are as eager to fall in love as you are, and the big data and algorithms can also help you efficiently match to partners who are similar to you in terms of outlook and interests, so it's worth a try.

4. Don't try to "become" an extrovert and force yourself to socialize: why pretend to be an extrovert? Why pretend to be an extrovert? Isn't your introverted self cute enough!